No Stupid Questions

I can get upset if my post gets a few downvotes, like -5 or something, but oddly when it reaches -10 or lower it doesn't affect me. Though it's rare for me to see my posts go that deeply down.

Upvotes on my posts feel nice.

When I see it with other people who get downvoted because their jokes are misunderstood or if their argument isn't well received but they meant well and it was on topic, I feel bad for them and give them an upvote (even when I don't agree with them).
Though some people deserve their downvotes, if it's clear that they don't belong in that community or are arguing in obvious bad faith. I don't often give out downvotes, but those people tempt me

If something has no downvotes, I might second guess downvoting it. For example sometimes I downvote bad typos, but I usually won't if the post doesn't have any downvotes.

You already have a couple of downvotes...

I check my downvotes every so often to see if I've made an ass of myself.

Edit: Good point. Warning added.

I'd be lying if I said I didn't care.

Its human nature, its encoded in our dna, in the past, social ostrization means death, so that feeling of "not wanting to get socially ostricized" persisted to modern day.

Btw you can actually see who downvoted you with https://lemvotes.org/, to see if they are actually real users or just bots/trolls.

I usually just assume any amount of downvotes between 1-5 to be bots/trolls. For upvotes, not getting upvotes doesn't matter as long as I don't get downvoted. I try to ignore votes, but like, my monkey brain just can't stop being curious about the score. 🤷‍♂️

There's also that fear of weirdos start trying to dox you if they didn't like something you said. Like "I dislike Linux" for example (not my actual opinion, but like imagine if someone said that, they'd get fucking downvoted to hell and stalked around the fediverse)

As for other user's scores: Seeing upvotes/downvotes on other user's posts/comments does not really change my agreement/disagreement of their statements

Yes, sometimes I say some stupid shit and other people correct me. Sometimes it's the reverse. We all keep each other accountable.

I don't, but I guess I do rely on them to float popular stuff up in my feed. After that, I couldn't care less.

I treat downvotes/upvotes as disapprove/approve, and I care in the sense of finding out what I'm asking for or if I say something incorrect to be called out and perhaps to measure interest.

Usually whenever I see a ton of downvotes its people doing the exact thing and I keep seeing it. Person makes strawman (ex: I say "I like socialism" and person responds "uh ok tankie, what about the holdomor"). I respond like a dumbass (I really should stop responding to low effort bad faith actors). They "own" me because world will mass downvote anyone who says uncomfortable truth and mass upvotes popular lies (damn this place really is like Reddit). Then I become the uneducated person who makes assumptions because I made the stupid mistake of responding. Yes I expert to be mass downvoted on this because the entire system is meant to incentive opinions you personally agree with in mass hoards of floads not opinions of any inherent value.

Yes. But only if people voted in the right way. You're not supposed to vote it you agree or disagree with something. That's not how this is supposed to work.

You're supposed to vote if the context fits the sub or topic.

No

Only when I'm checking to see what I said before someone replied. Otherwise, I never check.

No, not really.

I get a giggle whenever I see a throwaway shit comment of mine with many many down votes