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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Veraticus@lib.lgbt to c/chat@lib.lgbt

A number of users have made their way here from other instances; we welcome everyone, and I thought I would take the time to offer a clear vision as to what lib.lgbt is, why I created it, and what you can expect from participating in this community.

What is lib dot lgbt about?

We are primarily and firstly a space for queer people (and queer-adjacent people, including family and allies of all stripes). This means we are also inherently "political" in the sense that the existence of queer people is intrinsically political these days. While this reality kind of sucks, I didn't make the world this way; all we can do is live in it as best we can.

To me, all political considerations other than queerness are secondary. As long as your political philosophy aligns with queer liberation, you are welcome here.

The core tenet of all our users should be "everyone should be included and in every way possible." Let's take a practical example: the common troll debate topic of the inclusion of trans people in sports. Well, here, there's no debate. Everyone should be included in every way possible. Including trans people in a sporting league is, to us, as uncontroversial and proper as including Black people or Jewish people.

Failure to adhere to this assumption, or questioning the legitimacy or stability of queer identities, or "just asking questions," or wanting to debate queer people in the free marketplace of ideas, or whining about how the existence of this instance (or its moderation) is curtailing your freedom of speech, will result in scorn, opprobrium, and banning -- not necessarily in that order.

Why lib dot lgbt?

I created this instance as I fled from reddit. I love supporting queer people and debating politics, and was hoping to replace that in my life.

I initially applied to Beehaw and have nothing but love and respect for Beehaw and its mission. I wanted a space whose reason for existence was to serve and connect queer people of all flavors. Beehaw is not (and should not be) that.

This place is that.

Where is lib dot lgbt hosted?

From a purely utilitarian standpoint, this instance is on a pretty solid hosting provider (fly.io) and I expect very little downtime. While this is obviously just a passion project for me, lib.lgbt is not hosted in my living room but in a highly available cloud datacenter; the costs for this number of users are very low and I am happy to foot them.

You may depend on the reliability and stability of this instance and this community.

Who do we federate with?

We're not interested in federating with instances that allow debate on the question of queer identities. Thus, instances that willingly host content like The_Donald, anything TERF-related, and "free speech" bastions are prime candidates for disfederation.

In the end, though, I'd love to hear from you all! What kind of community should this be? What communities should we make here? I hope you all feel welcome, and if there are any questions about any of the above, please don't hesitate to let me know.

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[-] SapphicFemme@lib.lgbt 3 points 1 year ago

Curious, would it be possible for you to host an Element instance so we can create our own community chatrooms??

[-] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 2 points 1 year ago

I can look into this! I usually use Discord for a community chatroom -- might be worth setting one up here?

[-] SapphicFemme@lib.lgbt 3 points 1 year ago

Might be a good idea to set one up, better than discord,.

[-] SapphicFemme@lib.lgbt 2 points 1 year ago

Thank you for this! :)

[-] MoiraPrime@lib.lgbt 1 points 1 year ago

It appears comments aren't federating to lemmy.ml? Not seeing them over there when I go to those communities directly on their own sites.

[-] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 2 points 1 year ago

Hmm, I actually did have a comment federate over there today: https://lemmy.ml/comment/1058593

That said their instance seems to be performing really badly right now. Maybe that's related?

[-] MoiraPrime@lib.lgbt 1 points 1 year ago

I replied to this one yesterday. Still hasn't shown up. None of the comments on the post from others show up here either. https://lib.lgbt/post/26543 https://lemmy.ml/post/1458007?scrollToComments=true

[-] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 2 points 1 year ago

Weird… I wonder if there’s a way to force reconciliation with federated instances? I’ll look into it.

[-] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 1 points 1 year ago
[-] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 1 points 1 year ago

That’s surprising — I can’t recall if I made a comment on there. Can you link the comment on this instance? Maybe they’ve unfederated us.

[-] MoiraPrime@lib.lgbt 1 points 1 year ago

Is there a human-readable list of defederations I can look at somewhere? Helps to know what communities are hosted on blocked instances so I can skip over those.

[-] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 0 points 1 year ago

You won't be able to find them in the Community list anyway :) But you can always see that for our instance here: https://lib.lgbt/instances

I need to go through and add the publicly-maintained "spam" defederation list back in, but the UI to do so is not exactly easy-to-use or intuitive.

[-] MoiraPrime@lib.lgbt 1 points 1 year ago

I appear to be unable to upload avatars or really any images at all. Every time I try I get this error: SyntaxError: JSON.parse: unexpected character at line 1 column 1 of the JSON data

[-] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 2 points 1 year ago

Okay I think it's better now, pictrs was on the struggle bus for some reason.

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