I think the word you're looking for is stigma, not disability. Nothing about a person's ability has anything to do with other people hurting them.
Perhaps "problem?"
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I think the word you're looking for is stigma, not disability. Nothing about a person's ability has anything to do with other people hurting them.
Perhaps "problem?"