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[–] skeezix@lemmy.world 27 points 6 days ago (1 children)

What do you and most people in your town think of the "special military operation"?

[–] altkey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 31 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Being a special unicorn myself, as I do answer you on the fediverse of all places and in English, I want to say I am not representative of our bunch. But from what I can gather, there is no outright remorse to the war I could've welcomed, but an overall tiredness, and even distancing. As Prigo guy and others cried, not many people really care about the war around me, unless they are directly affected. I see ads for service everywhere, I hear drunk persons coming from the trenches, but the 'unilateral' support is artificial and comes from public institutions like schools, colleges, controlled social media, while average people just try to make their living in slowly hardening material conditions. Unlike frequently bombed regions, mine is adapting to whatever comes, and unlike visible support for the cause of war, everyone's just working their hours, walking kids and animals and don't care at all unless asked.

[–] wizzor@sopuli.xyz 17 points 6 days ago (1 children)

From what I can gather, this tends to be the sitch when a war is sort of remote - not worth getting in trouble opposing, not worth supporting.

[–] altkey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 26 points 6 days ago

For most, that is how it goes.

My uncle is driving me mad atm crying it's not universally supported to go big bang-bong-poof and proclaim a real nuclear war against the western world.

I feel myself a coward for not being in prison just yet, but I'm thankful to some deity that it lets me keep caring for my bed-chained elderly relatives who would otherwise just die uncared for.

[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 24 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Happy new year!

On a scale of 1 to KimJongUn, how free do you feel to speak your mind on Lemmy?

You have a good VPN?

[–] altkey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 6 days ago (1 children)

My VPN is okay. It breaks sometimes, but the team behind it are all tops, I'm now not even detected as a VPN user on reddit like I was previously. I want to go for my own private server solution in the coming year for the sake of learning the server side of things.

I'd initially put like 4/10 Kims there because I'm so uninteresting and unimportant person no one would care to jail me, but I'd put two additional Kims for my zoomer friends sometimes make me afraid about talking my mind with them in private, since they, like, kinda agree it's offensive to play anti-government song on the street, the thing I thought we put to earth long ago. They supported sentencing some teen for that, and I'm feeling it's 6 Kims outside my tight little circle of comrades since I'm afraid to be snitched on.

[–] NOT_RICK@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

The idea that playing a song is worth jail time… talk about cuck behavior.

[–] exupulosion@sh.itjust.works 20 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Can you please blow up a gas pipeline or a refinery? For the fireworks

[–] altkey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I'm not a pissy boy to steal frags from ukrainians.

[–] Luci@lemmy.ca 10 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

They won’t mind. Go blow up a refinery! It’s new years for Pete’s sake!

[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 16 points 6 days ago (1 children)

To me this has obvious queer vibes. Is this interpreted the same way in Russia and if so do you get any pushback for wearing this? I've read Russia is a very queer phobic country.

[–] altkey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Yup, very much so, but this time I wore them in a company of friends. Other times, yeah, people went nitpicking about my clothes to call me an f-word over nothing and some fights ensued. Regular locals are so thin-skinned lol

[–] NOT_RICK@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

Wearing these alone is itself a small revolutionary act in an environment that is so hostile to “gay propaganda”. Credit to you, stranger

[–] perishthethought@piefed.social 13 points 6 days ago (2 children)

This real 10 meter tall statue near me says hey to your unicorn.

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[–] altkey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 days ago

OwO

I'm half grateful, half scared :b

That statue killed its creator and has veiny balls, it’s got it all

[–] UnpopularCrow@lemmy.world 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Did you buy those pants or make them? Where would one buy pants with fire-breathing unicorns on them?

[–] altkey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I bought them in a second-hand store, so idk where you can find another pair, sorry.

[–] calliope@retrolemmy.com 8 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

What an incredible second-hand find! And they fit (I assume, given you’re wearing them!)

[–] saltesc@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Is there large cultural differences between the east and the west? I feel like non-Russians only see and know about the European part, in and around Moscow. But I can't imagine those around Mongolia are somehow the same, let alone those over near Alaska. At that point we're looking at thousands of kilometres of separation and there's a huge amount of cultural difference when comparing the countries that are found along Russia's border, e.g. compare the Finnish to Koreans, for example.

[–] altkey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago

Oh, well.

I've started to answer your question a couple of times, but the vastness of it and my feeling like I lack the expertise needed made me erase these tries. I wasn't that far into the Far East, mostly meddling around northern and eastern borders in the western half of the country, so I can't tell much about two exact cases you are interested in. Only paint one big and generalized picture.

In very broad strokes, I can tell that big cities that I was in, the 300k+ populated capitals of the region, felt more like a twist on a theme: up to 50% of it's own character but 50% or more of the same soviet heritage (e.g. architecture, behavior) plus contemporary russian stuff e.g. same store chains, street names, people consuming same social media content etc. Due to geographical and political unequality, some regions do show more of local spirit, either by being more isolated or by having a strong influence of e.g. Islam. But nevertheless, if you are traveling by train and have just an hour or two in each of them, you are unlikely to tell them apart after seeing four of them one after another in a close succession.

The salt of the earth predictably lays in smaller towns, villages, and the national culture of my non-russian half is better represented in these, with it's own dialect, folk tales, customs and local paegan-alike festivals. These places are still there, and there are small and caustious steps towards conserving some of these at least as modern reenactments and museums (god forbid someone would cry separatist national self-consciousness or whatever), but small places are dying as people migrate to cities with working infrastructure, jobs and access to basic material goods. I hope they'd outlive the modern turmoil if only for the sake of counter-acting the unhealthy unifying trope of contemporary propaganda, and for people visiting this land in the future to enrich themselves with the same oddities locals were inspired by there many centuries ago.

[–] Psionicsickness@reddthat.com 6 points 6 days ago

That’s just blucifer. You can’t fool me.

[–] besmtt@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

What would you do if you were forced into conscription?

[–] altkey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 days ago

Good question. Although, I had a lot time sitting with it alone, especially in the 2022, I still have no idea. Not about what I'd want to do if I had no exit plan, but what I'd be dare to do then, and I'm thankful I'm yet to know it.

[–] NOT_RICK@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

What’s your favorite piece of media you consumed (for lack of a better term) in 2025?

[–] altkey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago

A lot of them were inspired by the Fediverse directly, as is my Linux usage lol, but to be less of an echo from the threads we both saw, I had a great time with the latest Age of Empires II remaster. Haven't picked the original in a while, like a decade or more, or any other strategy for more than twenty hours, and getting back into that memory lane was a blast. There is some neat balance in how managing your workforces, troops and progression works there, and after watching some modern AoE youtubers I tried some of their tricks I've not discovered myself.

The gameplay, especially online one, is the downer there since I wasn't good back than and ain't getting any better, but the sounds, the gfx of growing buildings and walking armies, the ease of access are what made me both nostalgic and enthusiastic to nosedive into it for more hours than I thought possible.

[–] glizzyguzzler@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

What is your peak bloc car model?

I’d choose the Dacia 1304

[–] altkey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago

Good pick!

Late-soviet Oka car is my fav due to being a pretty little town car with conservative fuel consumption and affordable price at the time. I'd have liked a modern take on it with electric engine and some modern bells and whistles as a subsidised consumer-first vehicle* instead of all these fake suvs filling the streets. It isn't built for longer road trips (although me and my friends, relatives did some), but for casual needs of a small family it's almost sufficient.

* IIRC it was one of the most frequent cars that was given to citizens with disabilities at the time of it's production, at least from what I've seen.

[–] skeezix@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Do you agree with the conclusion that Silent East made about propaganda?
https://youtu.be/BY9uuxC_YAQ

[–] altkey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 6 days ago

I don't find his thought a sculptured and ready-to-discuss point, but the end of his vid did sound familiar.