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[โ€“] Starduster75@lemmy.world 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

When I was young, I was naive to the ways of romance, and especially romantic communication. I was often oblivious to advances made upon me, and awkward and unskilled at making any expression of interest without just looking a bit foolish. However, after a lot of experience and many ups and downs in the pursuit of love, I find that I am no longer young.

[โ€“] JasonDJ@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Men are dense and women are indirect.

I know these are generalities, but it's sooo freakin common that it's a well-known trope.

I'd actually go a step further and say that it's not so much that men are "dense" as it is that they are full of self-doubt...I.e., seeing the advances, knowing they are there, but not believing that they are actually intended for them, or it's a joke/prank, or for whatever other reason, they convince themselves that it's not an advance and they are misinterpreting.

IANAD, but I'd guess this has more to do with mens mental-health awareness than anything else.