Yeah, that's how the cycle continues. Trauma breeds trauma. Abused kids tend to abuse other kids.
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Comment from ProPublica:
Over the past year, we’ve been investigating child sexual abuse in the Old Apostolic Lutheran Church, a church with a significant presence in Washington.
ProPublica and u/star-tribune found that some child victims were encouraged by the church to “forgive and forget” the abuse they experienced from other members. Church leaders who were told of alleged abuse often failed to report it to authorities, allowing the behavior to continue unchecked. (Internal church guidance gave preachers wide latitude on whether to involve the police. One preacher said he believed it was up to the victims to report crimes themselves.)
Our reporters interviewed 20 former members who said they were sexually abused, along with parents of child victims. Collectively, they described a culture of normalized sexual abuse spanning multiple generations across the U.S.
In many interviews, we found a common theme: Children who were victims of sexual misconduct went on to repeat the behavior. In remarkably similar terms, women from opposite sides of the country described being touched inappropriately by an older relative or acquaintance and then repeating the sexual conduct with their peers.
In other cases, children who were preyed upon grew into adults who committed abuse. Both kinds of misconduct blur the line between a victim and perpetrator, experts in child protection told us.
Here's the full story: https://www.propublica.org/article/old-apostolic-lutheran-church-child-sexual-assault-cycle-abuse
In response to our questions, officials with the OALC church have said they do not believe sexual abuse is more prevalent within the church than in society at large, describing it as a serious and persistent problem that exists everywhere.
In response to our questions, officials with the OALC church have said they do not believe sexual abuse is more prevalent within the church than in society at large, describing it as a serious and persistent problem that exists everywhere.
They're not wrong. But that doesn't excuse the fact that it was reported to church leaders and they did nothing to stop it. Abuse doesn't just go away when you tell victims to "forgive and forget".