[-] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago

because transphobia... pretty much

[-] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 month ago

Taking or not taking HRT doesn't make you more or less valid. And remember, you can always stop it after you start it if you want to. Do what you think will make you happy, and do it when you are ready. If that means waiting to take HRT that's perfectly okay.

I'm not really sure what the deal is with the DIY hate in the other comments. Seems like cis people commenting on trans healthcare without actually knowing anything about trans healthcare (stop please). DIY isn't unsafe as long as you're getting your supply from a trusted source (which in this case I'm not sure you are, so that's your call). Doctors do not magically know everything, and they have proven time and time again to have no clue how to handle trans healthcare.

No matter what you decide, you are still valid. Not everyone takes HRT, and that's perfectly okay. Nobody can make this decision for you.

[-] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 2 months ago

congrats!!!!

[-] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 months ago

i only know one, his name is cowboycrustation xP

[-] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 2 months ago

thats what happened to me :D

(well actually i was told im too depressed so maybe i was too trans for hormones)

[-] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 months ago

why so squished and sad though :(

[-] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 2 months ago

what happened to blahaj D:

[-] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Yup. I have a car but it's under my fathers name (for now). I would have it under my name but I don't have the money to pay for the insurance. (car is long paid off). I'll get it in my name eventually.

[-] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 3 months ago

Last night I dreamed I was a kid, and instead of hiding and building a masc, I was demanding to be myself. Little dream me was so sure of herself, so ready to fight everyone who would tell her she couldn’t be who she really was. I could use her energy right now, and her willingness to fight for herself.

Speaking from experience, this isn't how being a trans kid works. I wish it was. The trans kid experience is more like this: you have absolutely no control over your body or your life, you have no money, no experience, and nowhere to go. All that energy gets sucked out of you as you realize there is absolutely nothing you can do as dysphoria eats you alive. If you don't have support from your family you are completely screwed until you become an adult. This isn't to say transitioning early in life isn't great, but to say that it's not all sunshine and rainbows. Becoming an adult morphs these things into problems you can actually control (at least somewhat).

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