Trans Memes

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A place to post memes relating to the transgender experience.

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  2. Posts must be trans related.
  3. No bigotry.
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  5. If a post is tagged with a specific gender identity, keep the conversation centered on that identity.
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Because it apparently has to be said, this community is supportive of all forms of DIY HRT.

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I spent like 3 years in that subreddit without really believing I was transgender. Around 2021 I shocked myself when I responded to a bigoted comment and automatically wanted to say "we" when describing trans people. I was so immersed in trans culture and felt such an affinity for them that I was already thinking of myself as a transfem before I was ever consciously certain. Simply not knowing I wanted to be a woman held me back for my entire childhood, but because of r/traaa, I could finally graduate from ignorance to denial.

r/egg_irl had a big impact, but if hadn't spent so much time in r/traaa, then the egg memes would've scared me off. If I haven't spent so much time there, then I might not have cracked and finally gotten to experience actually living for once. If not for that safe space, I might've never been able to disarm all the internalized transphobia and gatekeeping that can be all too common in more pickme trans spaces. A big part of why blahaj.zone is so important to me is that it reminds me of that place which no longer exists.

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Wrong answers only: (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 
 

I became trans bc someone misgendered me and I was too awkward to correct them

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The Ritual™ (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 
 
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I'm not gonna lie, I've been depressed and hopeless for the past year, not because I feel I have nothing to live for, but because I do. I'm finally a real fucking person for the first time in my life, and I'm living through a nightmare world I somewhat expected. None of this really surprised me. I knew our future would be a horrific decline for my entire adult life, but I was prepared to face it because I didn't care whether I lived or died.

The year and a half I had as myself before I knew I'd have to live through fascism was the first time I was truly looking forward to my future. I naively hoped that I'd at least have till China invaded Taiwan to establish a life for myself without an extreme upending of the status quo, but then the worst came to pass and I knew it was only a matter of time till my future became fully criminalized.

So now all I can do is survive. To not get imprisoned and very likely die. To somehow outlast the hate directed at us and start to regain what was lost. I won't kill myself for them; they'll need to do it themselves.

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One of my biggest fears is being on testosterone again. I don't think I would make it if that happened :3

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Hi, can I have your name?

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