Why stay federated with them when they seriously need to discuss this? What is there to work out, banning a blatant transphobe takes literally 2 seconds. Fuck these spineless cowards and their shit instance.
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Gottwaldian just means "person from our Germany stand-in"
Germany today not only scores an impressive 95 out of 100 on the Freedom House index
i haven't looked at the Freedom House index but damn it must be total and utter dogshit
Edit: oh god it is total and utter dogshit
Too creative and not quite racist enough, i doubt she could come up with something better than Gianfranco Mamamia or maybe Olivia d'Aglio
skirt over leggings girl has entered the chat
Yeah i know a trans man or two who've had to find out the hard way the woman they were dating was a transphobic lesbian who was posting stuff about "wlw" while they were actively dating a guy. And it's kinda weird how there's this almost complete seperation between transfems and cisfems as soon as we are in a shared lesbian space. I'm saying "almost complete" for a reason because there are exceptions, usually but not always with bi or pan women, but weirdly enough i've found the most reliable inclusivity from cis people with straight women who i very obviously do not have a romantic or sexual dynamic with in the first place and where it's just sisterhood from the get-go.
I'm not saying i will stick with exclusively dating t4t for the rest of my life, but my experiences with that have been so incredibly positive so far that going back to dating cissies would honestly feel like a downgrade 99% of the time. They're not worth the hassle of putting up with all these crypto-transphobes out there whose performative support ends as soon as gEnItAl pReFeRenCe or some nonsense like that comes into play. They have nothing to offer i can't get equally or better from dating other transfems. So why bother? If there's a cis woman worth my time and we run into each other in spite of me not looking, that's cool. My love can, in theory, go out to all queer women cis or trans. But when so many of them are so deeply poisoned by transphobic brainworms, i'm not going out of my way to seperate the wheat from the chaff just to date cis women. I can date women just fine without that when i stick to t4t. I'm not on the apps anyway, i'm happy in my little bubble that's almost exclusively fellow transbians. Do i want to be that kind of seperatist? No, but it's just a lot less of a struggle this way.
Don't knock the t4t underground until you've tried it.
If i had a nickel for every time i fall for a woman who can give absolutely incredible amounts of affection and care, but struggles to receive and accept being loved due to past trauma, i'd have two nickels. Which isn't much, but it's funny that it happened twice and by funny i mean i wanna strangle the one that did this to her so badly rn.
You should really switch out needles after drawing, pushing through the stopper blunts the needle and makes injections with that same needle a lot more painful. I get using the same type of needle for both purposes for simplicity's sake, but among my friends it's the standard procedure to use wider gauge needles for drawing. And contamination from damaged stoppers is still something that almost never comes up between dozens of users.
I just wanted to borrow a bit of e because i was running low, so i headed over to her place and did my shot, we made a little smalltalk and then she kinda just fell into me and we started cuddling. And kept cuddling and giving headpats and scritches and holding hands and hugging each other for an hour and a half. God, i'm still gushing when i think about how good it was to hold her like that. How good she smells, how soft her skin is. At one point, she fell asleep in my arms and she started twitching like a dreaming puppy. It was so cute. She's so precious. I'm so glad i have her in my life.
Defedding from an instance whose reaction to "our supreme court just decided to deny trans people protection from discrimination" is "maybe we shoud allow discriminating trans people" is entirely proportional you dingus.