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Full PostThis post is “FYI only” for blahaj lemmy members. It is not a debate, and is not intended for non blahaj lemmy users to weigh in and offer opinions.

I recently received reports of a feddit.uk user espousing transphobia. Specifically, this was a feddit.uk user refusing to use the word cis, repeating the “adult human female” dog whistle, and claiming that trans women are not women. I approached a member of the feddit.uk admin team and raised my concerns and sought clarification of their stance on posts like this, where the transphobia is mostly dogwhistles, and “civil disagreement” on the validity of trans folk.

I was told by the feddit.uk admin that their preferred response is this kind of transphobia is to “sort it out through discussion and voting”. However, the comments in question are currently more upvoted than downvoted, and little “sorting out” has occurred. The posts remain in place.

At this point, the admin stopped responding to my messages despite being active elsewhere on lemmy. When it became clear they were ignoring my messages and had no intention of removing the posts in question, I made the decision to defederate the instance.

I know some folk agree with the feddit.uk admins approach of pushback through discussion and voting, but this instance is not designed to be that kind of space. Blahaj lemmy is meant to be a place where we can avoid the rampant transphobia universally visible on nearly every other social media platform, and where we can exist without needing to debate our right to do so.

Just normal terf Island things. ukkk

cw:transphobia The context

https://feddit.uk/post/27973987/16868783

The feddit admins have responded in this post:

https://piefed.social/post/691666

Admin Responses

flamingo-scant@feddit.uk 17 hours ago

To be clear, there were no posts, this is about two comments by one of our users, both of which I personally pushed back on. We're still discussing what to do, but consensus takes time.

ᴇᴍᴘᴇʀᴏʀ 帝@feddit.uk 19 hours ago

Address the comments or address the defederation?

I was the Admin who was contacted by Ada and that is a mischaracterisation of what I said. Our rules still stand that we won't allow transphobia.

Unfortunately, as the ruling on the interpretation of the law has recently changed, we are going to have to figure out how we approach this and that is going to require a consensus amongst the Admins, and an agreement on our wording going forward.

This is going to take a bit for us to work out (although not too long, we're getting there, I have been active on Lemmy but I don't call the shots, and we need input from all Admins) and if, in the meantime, LBZ feel we aren't moving fast enough and they need to defederate from us then that is obviously their right.

flamingo-scant@feddit.uk 14 hours ago

The issue is this rule in c/unitedkingdom and c/uk_politics: Disappointing comments will generally be left to fester in ratio, outright horrible comments will be removed.

We've never had anything like the current wave of transphobia, not even those pogroms back in July, so we've never had to work out the exact line between 'disappointing' and 'horrible'. Working out that line needs discussion with all the admins, which unfortunately takes time. Regardless of what the government says or does, transphobia is not and will never be allowed here.

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[–] triplenadir@lemmygrad.ml 74 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (1 children)

This is a good move. I’ve reported a lot of tankie-like remarks on feddit that never get their comments removed and it’s concerning. Better to cut off any suspected tankie incubator than suffer the consequences

So absolutely on-brand for lemm.ee:

  • hallucinating tankies everywhere
  • "not intended for non blahaj users" garfield.jpg
  • leftists are apparently the same as, and worse than, bigots

Impeccable

[–] ShimmeringKoi@hexbear.net 59 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (3 children)

Under that, from a dbz0 user:

I’d rather my comm ban people that complain about ‘tankies’. It’s a useless term which can mean 100 things to different people, only serving really to divide the left.

Is it just me, or has dbz taken a noticeable turn for the cooler in these last few month?

[–] TreadOnMe@hexbear.net 18 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

Dbz the user is an insufferable debatelord who barely hides their contempt for you while posturing as jaqing off. Who was rightfully banned here around a year ago due to said tendencies (that I may or may not have got them to mask off on).

Dbz the forum is pretty chill. Little to Reddit for my liking, but not terrible.

[–] Kumikommunism@hexbear.net 35 points 21 hours ago

dbz has always had an almost even split of weirdos and decent people. But they get a lot of influence from the lemm.ee and .world types, so a lot of threads on there go a bad direction. Also their political (and adjacent) communities are overrun by liberals. Their climate and ecology ones don't allow any criticism of Democrats, for example.

[–] tocopherol@hexbear.net 24 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

Hey that's me big-cool

I made an account there maybe two years ago, they can generally be alright but a far cry from the glorious posters of hexbear. I only really use it these days to see what's happening on .world and the general lib-sphere that we aren't fedded with.

[–] thelastaxolotl@hexbear.net 30 points 21 hours ago

They said in their instance rules they dont allow transphobia but they are ok with dogwhistles?

ukkkqin-shi-huangdi-fireball

[–] godlessworm@hexbear.net 32 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

i don't really get how all this federating and different instances and stuff works but i do love how they're all connected and all have beef with each other. it's fun.

[–] spectre@hexbear.net 27 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

they're

We're part of this too, comrade

[–] Le_Wokisme@hexbear.net 4 points 10 hours ago

federated beef is never our fault, other people are wrong.

struggle sessions are a different outdoor cat.

[–] anarchoilluminati@hexbear.net 20 points 19 hours ago

We're the best though.

[–] Infamousblt@hexbear.net 64 points 1 day ago (13 children)

Blahaj: Goes out of its way to defend chasers and transphobes at the cost of a significant portion of lemmy's trans users

Also Blahaj: Why are we having so many issues with transphobes!

hillary-apartment

[–] whiskers165@hexbear.net 48 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I'm a trans person new on Lemmy but I've felt way more at home here than on Blahaj for reasons i can't put my finger on

I mean this with all sincerity and no disingenuity but can you explain how Blahaj defends chasers and transphobes? The vibes were weird over there

[–] Gucci_Minh@hexbear.net 52 points 23 hours ago

for reasons i can't put my finger on

Communists tend to have principles. We die on some really dumb hills sometimes, but liberals will concede on everything all the time.

[–] AssortedBiscuits@hexbear.net 31 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

The majority of the moderation team of /c/196 was cis, which gives you a general idea of how fucked the vibes are at that lemmy instance.

[–] whiskers165@hexbear.net 22 points 20 hours ago

WTF no wonder jesus

[–] Beetle@hexbear.net 43 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (3 children)

I find the sexualisation of trans people on blahaj uncomfortable, and when I still was on there I saw a lot of unmoderated sexism and ableism.

The 196 community in general has weird vibes, I’ve heard that the 196 subreddit has many vaush fans and vaush himself is just a really weird dude who normalises fetishising trans people and drawn child sexual assault material. The lemmy 196 community is a spinoff of the subreddit and the largest community on blahaj (last time I checked). I’ve had discussions with people there who linked to vaush videos as ‘source’ for why it’s ok to behave like a jerk be ableist. I think vaush is a horrible guy and his community is toxic, and some of the main posters and mods on blahaj are part of that toxic community which explains why a lot of the problematic stuff doesn’t get removed.

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[–] Diva@lemmy.ml 39 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

There's been some bad blood since when they were federated and the (old) 196 mods were particularly shitty, example: https://hexbear.net/post/363529/3762934

Since then there's been new 196 mods because the old 196 tried to force-migrate the whole comm to .world.

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 34 points 23 hours ago

I still remember HornyOnMain getting condescendingly berated and called "phobic" by a chaser for not wanting to fuck him. Just insane how the mods over there barely did anything about those incidences.

Post: https://hexbear.net/post/373222

Interaction itself: https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/fb45a987-1510-44fe-a7e0-e68283c2db2b.png

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[–] corvidenjoyer@hexbear.net 28 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

@CARCOSA@hexbear.net
Apperently we are also federated with feddit.uk. Do you think taking the same immedite actions as Ada would be good? Or do you prefer waiting for the feddit mod team to make a dicision?

[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 35 points 21 hours ago (4 children)

Why stay federated with them when they seriously need to discuss this? What is there to work out, banning a blatant transphobe takes literally 2 seconds. Fuck these spineless cowards and their shit instance.

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[–] Wolfman86@hexbear.net 41 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

Guess I’m leaving Feddit.uk then…I’ll see if I can message the mods first.

Edit; I’m leaving cause of the transphobia issue. I might live on TERF Island, but I’m not a TERF.

least transphobic br*ts

[–] goferking0 32 points 23 hours ago

Even more fun watching the non blahaj thread from blaze where the UK admins are just blaming Ada for not wanting to be around transphobes as the admins have to work out if they can bad them or not after the court decision

https://piefed.social/post/691666

[–] Evilphd666@hexbear.net 26 points 22 hours ago (1 children)
[–] corvidenjoyer@hexbear.net 22 points 22 hours ago

Feddit is the problem here so anyone who comes here would come likely come from there. Idk if we have access to feddit from here but moving from blahaj to here to access it would likely only be a temporary solution if nothing changes.

Fish. fishe

[–] Boise_Idaho@hexbear.net 22 points 22 hours ago
[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 53 points 1 day ago (15 children)

One of this guy’s posts is really flummoxing me:

transphobia

A woman is an adult female. A transwoman is an adult female who used to be male. It’s not difficult to grasp that they are different things. You can admit that and still believe that transwomen should be treated with dignity like anyone else.

Personally I don’t give a shit what bathroom people use or what they want to be referred to. I’ll go along with whatever… But a woman and a transwoman are different things, and it’s disingenuous to pretend otherwise. Always have been different things and always will be, no matter what the law states, now or in the future.

So instead of doing the whole, hurr durr, trans women are women but not female, this guy does the opposite and claims that we are female but women. kbity-how

I mean, he literally writes it out:

A woman is an adult female. A transwoman is an adult female

WTF?!? In over a decade of keeping an eye on transphobic rhetoric, I’ve never seen anyone pull out that kind of move. Transphobes somehow always manage to break my brain in completely new ways. ohnoes

[–] Awoo@hexbear.net 52 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (6 children)

They're using transwoman instead of trans woman.

This is used to define us as an ideological choice over a biological reality. To them a transwoman is a man identifying as a woman instead of a woman with the medical condition of being trans.

The entire goal of doing this is to push trans people out of medicine.

This was usually just a "mistake" made by well intentioned people up until this ruling but I'm inclined to moderate this behaviour from this point onwards in my online communities and force people onto "trans woman". If they refuse, banned.

It dehumanises trans women. It turns them into things instead of women with a medical condition.

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[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 53 points 1 day ago (2 children)

British transphobes continue to be awful. Fucking hell.

[–] AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com 45 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Transphobia is deeply ingrained in the British mindset. Even some of our "communist" parties are transphobic and claim that "gender identity is bourgeois". Trans people are arguably treated worse by the British left than American religious fascists. That's how bad it is.

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