Asofon

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[–] Asofon@discuss.online 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Sure it will. We aren't the first creatures or even people to witness what we take to be the end of the world. You can grieve it and do your best to resist it if you so feel called. If you can do so out of love for whatever it is that you value. My gratitude and respect if so.

Just stop believing that it is "bad". Which is NOT the same as saying it's "good". It's just the natural consequence of everything that has happened so far. Or do you shake your fist at the meteor that wiped out the dinosaurs? Have you given a good talking to at the volcanoes in Siberia for wiping out nearly all life in the Great Dying? Or any number of other events that led to mass extinctions. Human nature is also just a natural consequence and we're a microscopic blip in Earth's history. Cherish what is here now and do what you're called to do out of love for what you want to protect but you'll spare yourself a lot of meta-suffering if you can give up the idea that there's some right or wrong way for history to go. There's just what is advantageous for humanity and what isn't. I'm aligned with the former but I don't believe that humanity should or shouldn't exist.

[–] Asofon@discuss.online 4 points 6 hours ago (3 children)

Yet weirdly enough many people still let the psychos decide what "success" means.

If the game is rigged against you, stop playing it. Live by your examined values and get your priorities in order. If you really want tons of money, and power, by all means play the game. But if you actually value something else than money, pursue that. Money is often a shortcut, not an obstacle. People have more options than they think but the capitalistic mindset doesn't allow people to see them. Are you going to perhaps have to sacrifice luxuries that capitalism has granted us? Yeah. Is it just that easy? No. But how fucking ungovernable would you be if you you could settle for less?

Buddhist monks are doing pretty good. Not that you have to go that extreme but just to make the point: usually people reject modest living purely because they just gotta have more. And the system everyone is bemoaning in this thread is always ready to provide more and more and more - the price is just one's body and soul.

Most people in this thread could take a good, long look at their wants and needs and figure out which are actually which. And then decide for themselves what they can do that's actually worth doing as per their own values.

[–] Asofon@discuss.online 2 points 1 day ago

Hmm, maybe. Not sure if the expression is related, I always thought it had more defeated quality. With Zeno's paradox there's the idea that you do keep getting closer, and a bit closer, and just a bit closer, and just a tiny bit closer... There's the sense of progression.

Or maybe I'm conflating it a bit with the other expression, "close but no cookie".

 

Just something in my life is like this. I feel like I'm getting ever closer to it but there's always half the distance to it remaining.

I know all the things about how to deal with that but man... it's a hell of a feeling, mixture of being both tantalized and tormented. I don't think I even hate the feeling. There's something vaguely similar to holding off on an orgasm. Ultimate tease by life itself, except there's no safeword.

[–] Asofon@discuss.online 4 points 1 day ago

Yeeees and unfortunately it can get very meta: "I need to think critically" is another "what" to think. Most people would agree that critical thinking is a good thing. Yet, they still fail to actually do it. When pressed, many people can't even define is means to think critically and even get really pissed when this gets highlighted.

Also to @BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today

[–] Asofon@discuss.online 5 points 2 days ago

Unironically, you are 100% correct.

 

"Thoughts are tools, not truths"

[–] Asofon@discuss.online 5 points 1 week ago

We really need to have more wisdom teaching in the world... Try to give this a read: https://d289p81wn41b34.cloudfront.net/library/The_Way_of_Liberation_Ebook-2024.pdf

 

Accessibility Version

People really are thinking that their Discord dramas etc. are important. And people really, really think, that because they have 100k subs on YouTube, they’re important, better somehow.

We have had all of the internet for decades and people’s media literacy has only gone down. A lot. People rather spend hours arguing online about who is evil and who is good instead of reading some bare minimum philosophy and doing a bit of introspection, checking their own thinking. I see people repeat painfully common talking points about the nature of reality as if we didn’t have tons of literature challenging every single thought you could ever have about it. “MaYbE wE lIvE in A SiMuLAtiOn”… Read about Plato’s cave. Read Nondual texts. Read BOOKS. And these same people are out there trying to change the world. I fucking promise you, every single profound thought you’ve had while smoking a bit too much weed has been discussed in philosophy for thousands of years.

People still say shit like “pull yourself up from the bootstraps” as if willpower and free will in general were some kind of endless resource everyone has but because they “choose” to be lazy/worthless/etc. they just don’t use it. And people are quick to agree with this when we talk about mental health issues, which is great. But ask them to apply the same logic to people they disagree with politically, suddenly “correct opinions” are just out there, available and everyone who doesn’t just adopt them just like that must be evil. Everyone who didn’t grow up smart enough, in an environment that encourages learning must be evil.

Good and Evil. Also things that don’t exist in anything else but the human mind and somehow, we kill people over it. You’ve been brainwashed into believing into good and evil since you were a kid, because we’re generations into people who were also brainwashed to believe it. It takes conscious effort to drop that belief, and a fuckton of willingness to NOT consider yourself morally superior. You value human well-being to whatever point you do and if you’re lucky, you’ll run into your personal trolley problem sooner or later. Whatever you think about yourself is nonsense anyway, you’re a different person every moment of every day. No, you don’t have mental illness about it, that’s the natural state of all humans but at some point we actually started to believe that we are supposed to come with a cute little description about our True Self on the box we were shipped in (thanks American media industry). Then we angst over not knowing who we are, or not living up to who we are supposed to be, or not being able to fulfill our potential or whatever spin you internalized about The Finding Out Who You Really Are© project. And most of all, whatever you think you are, you certainly aren’t good enough (buy this product, it might make you good enough).

People STILL in the year 2026 make an artificial separation between the mind and the body, all because Western psychology was largely colored by Christian beliefs in souls. At best, people go “oh yeah sure, exercising is really good for your mind”. True. Now let’s say that mental hygiene is good for the body and you get called an antivaxxer. Tell people that you practice Loving-Kindness meditation and people call you weird or tell you that it’s pointless because nobody is going to change because you send them good vibes. These same people are the ones spending hours online, calling others racists, cucks, libtards, rightoids, trannies, nazis, pedos and more. But the weird ones are those who cultivate compassion for 20 minutes a day and gently cradle their hate in love, instead of vomiting it on others. But let’s be trauma-aware, put in trigger warnings, consider accessibility and disabilities. The Buddhist monks doing the walk get shit because “they’re just walking” - yeah but they aren’t posting the upteenth tired meme about how much The Other Side sucks.

Propaganda still works. After all this shit past few years, people ACTUALLY somehow still believe that’s it’s a good idea to discuss politics on social media. Because they’re totally sure that THEIR side is impartial, trustworthy and flawless. There couldn’t possibly be bad actors on THEIR side with the sole intention of spreading misinformation.

People march over homeless people in their own city, protesting for some issue happening on the other side of the globe that they can’t do anything about.

It’s a weird fucking timeline.

[–] Asofon@discuss.online 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Ah no it wasn't sent to me. It has nothing to do with me. But yes, you are right.

 

Was bored so...

Hey dude. Letting you know someone in the queer platonic group chat (the one you left after Kai’s alter made some acephobic comments, which he apologized for later btw :/) said they found receipts on your twitter of you liking a James Charles tweet which is really,, yikes.

Hey dude. Letting you know someone in the queer platonic group chat (the one you left after Kai’s alter made some comments that were perceived as being acephobic, which he apologized for later btw :/) said they found receipts on your twitter of you liking a James Charles tweet, which I think a lot of people are uncomfortable with.

Also Rainbow said you were tweeting on ur Steven universe roleplay account that were gonna rewatch ATLA which is like a really transphobic and racist and sexist show

Also Rainbow said you were tweeting on ur Steven universe roleplay account that were gonna rewatch ATLA which the community has agreed doesn't align with our values as it's perceived to be transphobic, racist and sexist.

and you know how Ash feels about even if they won’t say anything about it bc of their anxiety ,,,

and I'd invite you to consider how Ash may feel about it though they may not wish to say anything due to their anxiety.

idk dude I just wanted to let you know. I know Ash can be biphobic sometimes but they also live in an apartment and their parents are divorced so they have ptsd from it :////

idk dude I just wanted to let you know. I acknowledge that we've considered Ash's behavior unacceptable sometimes but they also live in an apartment and their parents are divorced so they have ptsd from it :////

I think Ash might write a callout but me and Rainbow are trying to calm them down just be aware and maybe stop being toxic

I think Ash might write a callout but me and Rainbow are trying to calm them down just giving you the opportunity to consider this and if your conduct aligns with the values of the community.

Less accusatory tone. Less "shoulding". Less expressing things as universal truths and instead, framing the concerns as coming from a place of building a community with certain values (and everyone is free to build whatever kind of community they want - and everyone is free to either join and follow that community or not). Taking ownership of one's own narrative about a situation, instead of trying to pass it off as an objective truth. Also more respect for boundaries. People's feelings are their business and you can invite others to take them into consideration but demanding others walk on eggshells is crossing a boundary - which tends to lead to resentment sooner or later (this is how communities and people get called "toxic"). If someone doesn't respond to an invitation the way you can at least level with, don't engage with them. And I say "level with" because bless humans, they figured out a way to make boundary-keeping problematic too ("if you don't 100% do everything the way I want, I'm dropping you.... bawww why is there such a loneliness epidemic").