Every time I see this statement, my first reaction is to feel solidarity, "yeah!" Then I think about all those emails I don't read and never respond to... π
GlassHalfHopeful
From my phone browser via the webui:
When viewing while logged into Lemmy.ca, the second link (accessing the community from my instance) does NOT show any recent posts.
The first link takes me to the community at lemmy.world (not from my instance and logged out of Lemmy.world) and it shows all recent posts.
For this reason, I would say that it's not synced. BUUUUTT...
If I go back to lemmy.ca, log out, log back in with my alt account... the two links you provided show all posts synced.
I think this is the kind of behavior that exists when you've been banned from a community π€·π½ββοΈ, except I haven't been banned.
I'm really confused.
"Being yourself" does not preclude personal development. Personal growth and learning skills, even something like flirting, is part of becoming a more well-rounded version of yourself.
Thing is, flirting isn't something you need to master or even be great at. As a matter of fact, being "terrible" at flirting can be just as effective.
The goal of flirting is to engage in social interaction that expresses interest and attraction.
I think you're putting too much pressure on yourself. You probably shouldn't even call it flirting. Put that notion aside. Focus on intentionally communicating your interest.
If you're interested in a person, then find ways to express that. It can be light-hearted and flirtatious, but being terrible at flirting works too. So do it terribly. You'll eventually figure out what doesn't help communicate your intent. Flirting is a gentle and indirect way of expressing that intent. Many people are more direct and it can work for them too. Being more direct may be better for you. π€·π½ββοΈ
Regardless of what you do, be respectful. Be playful if you want. But most importantly, communicate your intent and desire.
Wow. Ha! I haven't heard Tom's name in forever.