Oh I'm sorry, i meant specifically "photos and illustrations of the kinds of women i specifically like tend to get downvoted here on NSFW Lemmy and the niche communities aren't active enough"
The corresponding Reddit subreddits are active enough that i don't have have to visit any general purpose subreddits.
IRL I'm happily married. Spouse and i are pretty open minded about porn/hentai/NSFW
I guess my issue is that other than ideological reasons (reddit alternatives are good) there's nothing that NSFW Lemmy does better than anywhere else i go.
My niches/kinks/preferences aren't represented or are actively denigrated in the bigger NSFW communities and the smaller more niche ones don't have the activity or quantity of posts to make this place a "must visit" or introduce me to things i haven't seen before
Instead of becomes an app i only remember to check every week or two, compared to something like Mastodon, which i use daily.
then when i try to submit something to a community the Sync app gives me an "this image cannot be uploaded" error with no further explanation and i decide that posting the 5-10 images i found actually isn't worthwhile after all.
I'm really glad this place exists but I'm struggling to participate in it
I was trying to put my finger on it but i think you said it best. Everything from the shape to the hairstyle says "too young" so the answer is "no thank you"
Yellow fills out that bikini better. Easy choice
Down, definitely
Bottom!
Far right for suuure
Eating ass
Sounding
Cock & Ball Torture
Deep throating
Anything that's fun for viewers but less fun for the participants
Femdom, particularly anything with boxing, wrestling, combat. The "struggle" is very very hot to me.
Femdom feels like a thing that is either very very ordinary or very strange depending on your investigation of kink, bdsm, and gender roles
I think that last part is hella crucial. When one partner starts/tries to hide when they masturbate, it makes things hella weird.
Embarrassing honesty is a part of growing up and establishing trust.
The anti-OF posters sound exceedingly hyperbolic. I'm certain there's a reasonable way to ensure OF/ManyVids/Fansly models are encouraged to post free content here without it consuming the entire site.
But posters demanding that all OF models be banned entirely sound hella unreasonable.
Go make your own community and ban OF models from it
I'm really attracted to femininity, so mostly but not exclusively women
Internally? Emotional intelligence, self-awareness, empathy, willingness to try things and be uncomfy at first
Physically? Glasses, big ass and thighs, huge breasts, dark complexion, natural hair, braids/twists
Not into slim/skinny/hard/flat figures or shapes at all.