Oh I'm sorry, i meant specifically "photos and illustrations of the kinds of women i specifically like tend to get downvoted here on NSFW Lemmy and the niche communities aren't active enough"
The corresponding Reddit subreddits are active enough that i don't have have to visit any general purpose subreddits.
IRL I'm happily married. Spouse and i are pretty open minded about porn/hentai/NSFW
I'm really attracted to femininity, so mostly but not exclusively women
Internally? Emotional intelligence, self-awareness, empathy, willingness to try things and be uncomfy at first
Physically? Glasses, big ass and thighs, huge breasts, dark complexion, natural hair, braids/twists
Not into slim/skinny/hard/flat figures or shapes at all.