If i can give you one piece of advice? Don't listen to incels.
Oh, I don't! I just thought I was missing something here.
It legit just hit me now that you said it: that thread wasn't for discussing incels— it was for incels.
My misogynistic upbringing often makes me second-guess myself, and I just wanted to make sure I was a bit more grounded. I feel a bit better now.
God, this makes me 5000% happier to have a women's community in a male-dominated space. Thank you. 🫂
But it won't make them better people.
I'm not saying it's invalid, I'm just saying that I personally don't believe that it's the true core of the issue!
It's way more than just "Men mad because monke brain want sex mad because no sex".
Self-worth can be a result of societal expectations. Your parents badgering you about how you should "go get married and have a family" to show how "successful" you are as a person is very much a thing. It can greatly impact a person.
The only reason a person would feel bad is because society is pushing the narrative that they should feel bad if they aren't having sex with someone.
Oh, I'm well aware. I'm one of those problems. 😎
I'm asexual. Can't relate, I guess.
EDIT: Wait, that's even shittier!! People unable or have difficulty reproducing are worth less to society?? I may be a bit naïve, but I don't believe that's a majority of society believes something like that. That's disgusting.
It's simple math, really.
"I know what's wrong with it! Ain't got no gas in it!"
Seems like a huge part of the problem is equating "self-worth" to "getting laid".
Putting your dick in a woman doesn't make you any more of a man / successful / worth more than anyone else.
Societal expectations need to be rejected. Oh, success is measured by your ability to get married, have a house, and raise your 2.5 children? For a vast majority, NONE OF THAT IS CURRENTLY SUSTAINABLE AND/OR OBTAINABLE. So why bother? Right?
I get it. It ain't right, but I get it.
Sex ain't gonna fix 'em.
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That happens when you have a community blocked. Same thing for me, too.
If anyone can repost the text in this thread, it'd be very much appreciated!