Never do more than you are asked, especially for free

Absolutely

That is what I think about. I don't mean they did the best they could. I'm saying that due to their mentality and personal psychology there were no way for them to act another way. If we turn back time they'd do the same thing as it is what they saw from their personal background. I don't mean we should understand them and forgive, I just think that we could take the responsibility for our life and get over that trauma and frustration to live further without the feeling that our happiness depends on what our parents did to us in the past. You can have another opinion that's okay, I just express mine.

That moment when a film is better than a book...

I thought we're gonna talk about a music band, aren't we?