Computer related fields are a constantly changing tech stack. People either are constantly growing in their career, or they are falling out of date. That long in the field should either be extremely comfortable, issue with the individual, or lack of drive to be constantly challenged.
The hardest part is the first job. After that should be constant career growth. This observation is only for the US job market.
The food is always offered and the command to eat given. He has not been told not to eat it.
He eventually eats about 50% of food offered. Every meal is random on if he will eventually eat it. Some days he will eat kibble and ignore a steak... Lol