[-] Swallowtail@beehaw.org 19 points 1 week ago

I don't expect shit from anyone. That said, when I'm at one I'm still going to ask if there are options, because why wouldn't I?

[-] Swallowtail@beehaw.org 14 points 2 months ago

AI-generated articles, books, coloring books for example, are all a thing now. Behind the Bastards did a podcast episode on the latter two.

[-] Swallowtail@beehaw.org 23 points 3 months ago

Remote workers are overall more productive, report a better work-life balance, and suffer less from occupational burnout. It also saves companies money because they don't have to spend as much on office space.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/intentional-insights/202303/the-surprising-truth-about-remote-work-productivity

My time is the most precious commodity I have. Unfortunately I'm in a career where I can't work remotely, but if I was I would refuse to go back to the office. Life is too precious to waste it sitting in traffic if you don't have to.

[-] Swallowtail@beehaw.org 20 points 8 months ago

I don't mind paying for YouTube premium because I think YouTube is a valuable service and recognize it's expensive to host videos.

[-] Swallowtail@beehaw.org 28 points 8 months ago

Ich liebe interkulturelle Memes, die ich auch dann verstehen kann, wenn ich die Sprache nicht spreche! Entschuldigung für die Google-Übersetzung.

[-] Swallowtail@beehaw.org 11 points 9 months ago

I have very little faith in businesses to do the right thing for the right reasons. Publicly traded companies in the US literally can't do that legally if they think it will hurt their bottom line.

[-] Swallowtail@beehaw.org 11 points 9 months ago

Go vegan. It's better for the planet too.

[-] Swallowtail@beehaw.org 20 points 10 months ago

https://www.nbcnews.com/better/health/how-often-do-happiest-couples-have-sex-it-s-less-ncna828491

Once a week or so is the average. I'm at about the same amount of time in a relationship as you and we're about once a week. Personally I feel like sex is nice but it takes time and effort and I'm not always in the mood to spend time pleasing someone else (and I'm not going to initiate unless I'm willing to do that). I could see myself having sex a little bit more often if I had a better work-life balance where I felt less pressed for time. This gets me thinking that I should check in with my partner about this topic though!

[-] Swallowtail@beehaw.org 13 points 11 months ago

Not discrediting the fact that guys can be dumbasses sometimes and go in with guns blazing, but perhaps sometimes it's just people being ignorant and not a gender thing? My wife has killed multiple plants of mine (some of which I really cared about) and my dad's partner has done the same. I don't hold it against my wife because she's just not very knowledgeable about gardening and it's my hobby, and she was doing me a favor just caring for my garden in my absence.

[-] Swallowtail@beehaw.org 12 points 11 months ago

I'm a teacher in training. We had reading "homework" over the summer for our incoming students. Their families were instructed that if their child read every day (15-30 minutes or so), and they kept track of it on a chart we sent them, they would win prizes when they came to school. I think it was something like a pizza party if they read a certain number of days. It wasn't mandatory and there was no punishment for not doing it. I thought it was a great idea.

[-] Swallowtail@beehaw.org 17 points 1 year ago

Here's my advice as someone that quit drinking about 6 years ago due to my inability to drink responsibly.

Do you want to quit? If you feel like you can't handle playing a game in moderation, maybe it's time to think about quitting it entirely. If you feel like playing other genres of games will eventually draw you back into playing more addictive games like WoW, then you could think about quitting that too, it's up to you. If certain music makes you think about playing WoW and you can't control yourself if you listen to it , make a sacrifice and don't listen to it. I avoided bars for years and still don't really love being around when people are drinking. The sacrifices I make are well worth it though and I'm much much happier as a result.

Have a long, honest conversation with yourself about what you want from life and how video games fit into it. That's what I did with alcohol and realized I didn't want to waste my life on stupid shit any more and decided to quit.

[-] Swallowtail@beehaw.org 13 points 1 year ago

Beehaw has a gardening sub. Contribute and spread the word!

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Blackberries are the gift that keep on giving! Fairly low maintenance, productive, and tasty. And you can sell the runners for cash or give them away to spread the love!

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