hating on k8s is very in vogue currently. simpler systems like ECS exist and are really good too.

anybody bitching too hard about the tools today isn’t remembering 10 years ago correctly.

neat, thanks!

i am really looking forward to this after watching some youtube footage.

There are 2 kinds of people in the world, “Dr. Jugs” and “Drugs”

yta. your stepson is “your” family. excluding him is completely fucked. he didn’t choose to be in between 2 families. i can’t imagine how shitty the rejection would feel in this scenario.

“MY money”, “MY family” makes you sound like an absolute piece of shit.

nta. some people might be comfortable with this and some aren’t. standing up for what keeps you comfortable is the right move imo.

“programming” is so broad though. surely there’s room to have it be both work and a hobby ?

i mean, it is for me and lots of folks i know.

there are tons of developers and technical folks that still find it fun and enjoyable to work on personal projects.

i mean, how else do you build new skills or gain familiarity without stuff you don’t use at work?

absolutely ballin’

fair!

i said “email” but what i meant was “show me a complicated example”. i don’t disagree with anything you said.

this is really the problem here. it’s very much lipstick-on-a-pig and doesn’t actually reduce complexity.