[-] decavolt@kbin.social 8 points 1 year ago

This 100%. I use YouTube Music and have a premium subscription and it's fantastic. Even without premium it's still great.

[-] decavolt@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

I left that garbage heap many years ago. Rogan's show is just one of the pieces of garbage in the pile there.

[-] decavolt@kbin.social 26 points 1 year ago

It would still be "I'm just asking questions" about whether or not the moon landing happened and if lizard people exist.

[-] decavolt@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago

But "shouldn't stop them from here" and "self-moderate" are in conflict with one another. What is self-moderation if an entire instance is troll farm, or hate group? Should that self-moderation not include defedding as an option?
If I have a party in my house and a bunch of rowdy people show up, I have a series of escalating options to stop the problem ranging from asking one of them to stop, to kicking the entire group out of my house and never letting them come back. Defedding is the last of those, and I see no reason why it shouldn't be an option when other methods are not working.

[-] decavolt@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago

Exactly. When TendieMaster69 says "self-moderate" I think defedding should 100% be a part of that self-moderation toolkit. That's all defedding is - an instance saying "nope, we're done with your b.s." I don't see why that should be off the table.

[-] decavolt@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm 48. I was dating five years ago, and now I'm married to a woman who doesn't play games at all. So I'll say this: when a date says "oh dear" or some such when you say you play games, that's a red flag. Even if they don't personally play, it's pretty shitty for a partner (or potential partner) to try to make you feel bad about about your hobbies. Absolutely fuck that noise. They don't have to like the same things, but it's a whole other situation for them to tell you it's dumb or wrong for you to like what you like. That goes double when you have kids and you play with them.

I play games, I draw, and I play D&D. Hell, I just bought a Steamdeck and am goingto build an arcade cabinet with my stepson. My wife does none of that, and it's super important to me that I not be shamed about my hobbies. I would never shame her about hers.

There is no age cutoff. The idea that fun things are childish is a stupid concept pushed by boring people on the rest of us because they don't know how to have fun anymore.

[-] decavolt@kbin.social 14 points 1 year ago

So what you're suggesting works in theory, but not in practice. There are times when simply ignoring bad actors or voting them down within a community is not enough to stop them from misbehaving. Try ostracizing a botnet. Or nicely asking trolls to stop posting racist memes. It won't work.

[-] decavolt@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago

Good luck with that. It's just as smart as the rest of his decisions with Twitter.

[-] decavolt@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

Very good point - the paid version is cheap and well worth it.

[-] decavolt@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

I used to think the same, until I read somewhere that our brain is pretty much the size of our two fists if we put them palm-to-palm. Looking at my own hands that way is a great reminder.

[-] decavolt@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

In case it hasn't been mentioned, you can exclude reddit from your searches with the flag "-reddit.com". So, searching for...

memes -reddit.com

will show you all results without results from reddit. :)

[-] decavolt@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago

Bitwarden, all the way. On my mobile devices, laptops, etc.

I used to use KeePass but the UI is so antiquated and features also just haven't kept up. Bitwarden free, open source, audited, syncs and works everywhere flawlessly, and I can self host if I ever want to. It's great.

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