offendicula

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[–] offendicula@fedia.io 2 points 5 months ago

Sounds like she's all over the place, which is not unusual at her age (and regardless of gender). 23 is only the very beginning of breaking out of whatever kind of toxicity a person grew up in and I could hazard a few guesses from the part about chasing jerks. It's hard when you have a good time and you can see the possibilities for the relationship but they're out of reach. You have to work with who she is and what you have right now though. You have to work with reality.

I get it about the overthinking. But she doesn't know what she wants so she doesn't have any signals or messages to interpret. It's all static and noise.

I'd recommend gently detaching yourself from her, you might not need to stop being friends but do stop being the kind of friends that go inside each others' places (so she doesn't steal your hoodies), or get drunk around each other. Yes she may not like this and may not want to be friends anymore and you may also lose the rest of the friend group. It sucks, it happens, but good thing is there are lots more cool people in the world.

[–] offendicula@fedia.io 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I don't know about ViolentMonkey (sounds like a TamperMonkey variant?) but I use Stylus and yes it does the same things as TamperMonkey.

[–] offendicula@fedia.io 3 points 6 months ago

Alternate Player for Twitch.tv Dark Reader NoScript NoSquint Tabs Outliner uBlock Origin uMatrix

[–] offendicula@fedia.io 2 points 7 months ago

Poc-er-hontas? I don't even know her Hontas!

[–] offendicula@fedia.io 5 points 7 months ago

I like to do the one where people say a word ending in an "er" sound (or that could end in that sound) and say "[word]? I don't even know her!" My worst (best) one recently was when someone said Toyota...

Toyoter? I don't even know her!

[–] offendicula@fedia.io 12 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Accelerationists in shambles.

(I wish. Their heads are quite thick.)

But in seriousness, love your stuff PugJesus. I follow you specifically so I can keep up with your posts.

[–] offendicula@fedia.io 5 points 7 months ago

Agreed, most every nation has survived horrible things and quite a few have done horrible things. It's not just the US.

[–] offendicula@fedia.io 5 points 8 months ago

In my mind this is 100% your legacy, you're welcome 😁

[–] offendicula@fedia.io 7 points 8 months ago

I looked at OP's history and have discovered a treasure trove of moth memes. Love it.

[–] offendicula@fedia.io 6 points 8 months ago

More wagons!

[–] offendicula@fedia.io 6 points 8 months ago

Ugh I would struggle to keep a straight face.

[–] offendicula@fedia.io 5 points 8 months ago

Yep and he doesn't have anything that we all don't have. All matter exerts gravitational pull.

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