Lots of people actually use Lemmy, Kbin and similar platforms as alternatives to Reddit and other traditional social media. It's great that you're open to donating/hosting, that's exactly the kind of person we need imo. I simply pointed out that too many people that are opposed to donating/hosting or simply don't know the necessity of it could become problematic. Basically encouraging people to help make the Fediverse even greater. I also stated that it will probably be fine, just as Mastodon is doing fine.

I checked out your cooking content and it's actually quite interesting! Keep up the good content :)

That is a fair point, I'll keep that in mind going forward, thank you

Edit: I do want to add that skimming the title and voting based off of that is not how it should work. I would at least scroll to the conclusion, even though this article admittedly doesn't really have one. Going forward I will make a clearly marked conclusion and summarize my pov better in the title to avoid confusion.

sounds like a normal Saturday, nothing to worry about

Glad we cleared this up :) Have an awesome night!

There actually are businesses, schools and more using Discord for their communications. Some people also use it as their primary messaging app and that really shouldn't be the case. For anything nonsensitive, it's not that big a deal. I would still recommend checking out privacy respecting alternatives like the end-to-end encrypted client Element that uses the Matrix protocol

already did but thanks :) it's sad when people can't keep their cool...

I agree that it would be beneficial to have this space be filled with people that understand it. What I meant by “I am not gate keeping the Fediverse” is that I don't want to be rude to new people by being annoyed at people not knowing stuff yet. It's okay to be new, it's okay to learn. I just want people to be willing to learn, that's all.

Usually I would be open to an exchange of opinions. You not being able to stay calm and civil unfortunately prevents that.

Excuse me? I don't understand

It's not. I just wrote something about not using Discord and am currently working on a post about Element, the better Discord. https://uselessauth.btw.so/opinion-discord-shouldnt-be-your-main-messenger

I sadly have to agree... I see that this post has a 2:1 up/down ratio. I was hoping that people with different opinions would speak up more because I would love to hear them

I know all that but I honestly don't need to. Most of my time is spent inside anyway. Sometimes I take the train and spend a weekend some place nice but that really is all I need.