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submitted 5 months ago by MicroWave@lemmy.world to c/news@lemmy.world

Ambition once came with a promise: a home, a salary, progress and fulfilment. What happens when that promise is broken? Meet the women who are turning their backs on consumerism, materialism and burnout

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[-] Sabata11792@kbin.social 14 points 5 months ago

My job is cozy and not too stressful. Its a shame I will have to quit in a few years once inflation catches up again. I'd stick around if wages stay livable but that's a strech.

Still living paycheck to paycheck but it seems best I can do. Worse, im afraid if getting pushed up to the bosses seat. Im not trying to move up unless its life changing money. I don't know the pay, but I dealt with being on call before and that was hell. Last thing I need is to burn out , I don't know if I can live through that again.

[-] HubertManne@kbin.social 5 points 5 months ago

yeah I hate the bs of trying to push management stuff on ya when its not part of the job you signed up on. Certainly aint doing it without a hefty pay increase. Why do all the bootstraps folks not want to pay for anything. I mean I know why. They did not get rich by writing checks.

[-] stoly@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

That's when you say yes, pad your resume, and the find an actual managerial job with the extra pay. Think of it is free training, but only take it if you either want it or plan to leave.

[-] HubertManne@kbin.social 4 points 5 months ago

training. lol.

[-] Sabata11792@kbin.social 1 points 5 months ago

I may do it if the pay is impressive but seems the intention is to move me up. I dont even know if I can actually pull off the job without looking like a clown.

[-] HubertManne@kbin.social 3 points 5 months ago

thats like all jobs really. at least in tech. go from feeling like an unstoppable god to being the biggest fool that ever failed to fool a fool.

[-] Sabata11792@kbin.social 2 points 5 months ago

Potentially to sysadmin for the building, from being just the tech guy that kinda stagnated. Not much I been learning on the job other than the setup. I don't know if I could even manage to land it though.

Over an entire life worth of experience difference between me and the boss.

[-] ChunkMcHorkle@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)
[-] Sabata11792@kbin.social 2 points 5 months ago
[-] ChunkMcHorkle@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)
[-] Sabata11792@kbin.social 2 points 5 months ago

It's hard to think about and plan for because it is vaguely in the future, be it tomorrow or a few years from now. Nothing is in stone yet, I just know it will happen eventually and I got to figure out some plans. Who knows, the pay could just not be worth it, or they just say no. The low stress I got now is amazing and that's going to be hard to let go of.

It feels like its the first "adult" job where I go to an office and do boring office stuff instead of literally running 3 peoples worth of calls. I do 0-6 tickets instead of 30-100. I basically am doing a 10th of the work at twice the pay of the last job. That's jarring enough on its own.

[-] ChunkMcHorkle@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)
[-] Sabata11792@kbin.social 2 points 5 months ago
[-] stoly@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago

I found my "level" and just stayed there. Am comfortable and don't have to hustle. I could do or earn more, but I don't think it would be worth it to my life.

[-] Sabata11792@kbin.social 1 points 5 months ago

I'm afraid I'm going to get pushed forward just to make ends meet, get stressed, and become miserable again.

[-] stoly@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

I suffered through decades of poverty. Managed to get through a bachelors and then a masters, and now work in a comfortable position that I enjoy. Sadly, you have to get to that masters level to really get ahead and that, for the most part, is only available to the children of upper middle class parents. Either you need to force your way through it or just get by for life.

[-] beeple@slrpnk.net 2 points 5 months ago

Military service is another "fantastic" way to get higher education

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