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submitted 7 months ago by db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/adhd@lemmy.dbzer0.com

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[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 58 points 7 months ago

I'm basically an orchestra with no conductor. The different sections are just doing whatever the hell they want. I need a conductor.

[-] BolexForSoup@kbin.social 22 points 7 months ago

And they all stopped playing music at like 19 or 20 so like…they’re fine at their instruments, can read music, even have moments where they sound pretty good. But they ain’t winning a competition lol

[-] wise_pancake@lemmy.ca 12 points 7 months ago

Why does this comment hurt in my soul?

[-] BolexForSoup@kbin.social 10 points 7 months ago

Because we mostly understand the issue but not well enough to fix it! Weeeeeeeeeee!

[-] confusedpuppy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 7 months ago

I wouldn't mind if societies also made some compromises for me too. Currently it feels like I'm making all the compromises to fit in but made to feel like it's never enough.

Feels like I'm trying to fix an awful relationship by doing all the hard work myself. I'm tired.

[-] BolexForSoup@kbin.social 4 points 7 months ago

Definitely fair. I was more just continuing the bit above

[-] NoIWontPickAName@kbin.earth 1 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I felt that in my soul and it made me immediately think “Fuck You” and laugh loud enough everyone looked at me.

[-] BolexForSoup@kbin.social 0 points 7 months ago

I aim to displease

[-] pearsaltchocolatebar@discuss.online 12 points 7 months ago

I'm seriously considering starting a financial management business for people with adhd like me who are in debt simply because they forget to pay the damn bill.

I wouldn't be managing anyone's finances, though, I'd hire people who aren't like me.

[-] tsonfeir@lemm.ee 5 points 7 months ago

If you have enough money to afford a personal assistant, you probably don’t have these problems because you have a personal assistant.

[-] NoIWontPickAName@kbin.earth 2 points 7 months ago

Auto pay saves me $1,000’s a year, that and getting a loan to consolidate all my credit cards so i would only have one late payment max a month, and it’s on autopay.

I have saved so much money with that damn loan and the All Mighty Autopay