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Ableism on Hexbear?
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this post was submitted on 28 Apr 2024
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Unfortunately very normalised in society. Even I was only alerted to words like "insane" being very hurtful a few months ago. I'm a big "absurd", "ridiculous" and of course "unserious" user now.
Good post,
hopefully there can be selfcrit and waning usage of these terms in harmful contexts.
I usually open people's eyes on the term crazy when I have the right audience because our discourse around that term is the obvious stuff but also it implies that someone should be locked up or deprived of rights but it's also very common to use it to imply that someone "deserves" to be taken advantage of ("our prices are crazy" and "we've gone completely mad").
Kinda gross when you think about it, especially in the context of the stats on mentally ill people being abused and exploited.
Super fucking gross, I hate to see it. Ableist-ass society...
I'm personally a big fan of understatement, so I like using ridiculously underwhelming insults. Like for this South Dakota governor, calling her meanie of rude when atrocious might be a more appropriate word.
"lame" and "crippled/crippled by" were pointed out to me by a friend who has muscular dystrophy a few years ago, they are also both incredibly common. I've sadly had quite a bit of pushback when trying to correct comrades on it (even in the old r/CTH sub)
hey have some more pushback
as a fellow "can't walk properly" person, the last time lame applied to me was a bible passage. the only times I'm (or anyone else, unless there's an american vs commonwealth english thing going on here) am reminded about the ability meaning is when etymology
s bring it up like it's a problem.
it's certainly dated to call someone "a cripple" and, again in my experience, that's usually self-ID. Usages like crippling anxiety or a damaged mechanical system ("land a crippled airplane") don't seem to be disparaging or contributing to the marginalization of people so someone would have to explain to me how those are ableist.
Just passing along something that hurt my friend (and according to them, others in their circles). We also met at church so that may have played a part as well.
Yeah I ejected "crippled" from my vocab ages ago, I guess "hobbled" too? Unfortunately this kind of language change is still considered somewhat fringe, I think...
Huh, really. I do not use either so much but thank fuck for that!