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She's at least 15 now, and can't make it to the box.
(lemmy.world)
My elderly relative is already growing frustrated with her. He suggested putting her outside again.
Your elderly relative is a piece of shit. Put him outside.
Edit: Also, take the cat to a vet and start thinking about end of life care for this sweet kitty and whether you want to lift a finger for your relative once he's in a similar position.
Seconded on all counts, especially this one
Hoo boy. The number of cat people here chanting HARM THE RELATIVE is … worrisome. Starting to think cat people aren’t the best people.
Refusal to help isn't an intent to harm. You get what you give 🤷♀️
Ehh. Granted, your response wasn’t “Put him outside instead” , which was the response of others
But refusal to help when they’re in a similar situation - that’s easily neglect. So please don’t think you came off better than others
Morality is subjective, it's just different values ig
There is value to having the conversation about "holding on for too long". But...
But, "euthanasia vs palliative care" is a conversation that must be between you (the owner) and your vet
It's possible that there are other, addressable reasons for being unable to make it to the litter box, and a vet visit is necessary to identify and address these issues
As well, it's possible that it is indeed "time". A conversation with the vet is best
Wow and cat people think of ourselves as so much better & more empathetic 🙄