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[-] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 70 points 4 months ago

Tinder and the other apps are pretty bad. Partly because they want to make money, not matches.

But also partly because the users suck at using them. People are like "I want interesting conversation" but reply with nothing but "lol". Come in my dude put some work in.

[-] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 30 points 4 months ago

But also partly because the users suck at using them. People are like “I want interesting conversation” but reply with nothing but “lol”.

A lot of profiles on these sites are entirely fake or bot-operated, to boost the impression that you're getting matches. Some profiles are run by data miners who swipe match on everyone just to get the additional data that comes with a match. Others are run by businesses that are using the profiles for promotion.

Slapping "I want interesting conversation" in the profile is a great way to bait engagement, but more often than not there's no dating prospect on the other side of the profile. This isn't a string of incredibly vapid women you're running into, its dummy accounts and scams.

[-] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 11 points 4 months ago

Somehow I hadn't even considered fake profiles. I don't know if that makes me feel better or worse about the situation.

[-] swan@lemmy.world 12 points 4 months ago

My coworker told me that even restaurants will post "profiles", get matches and set up first dates at their establishments. The person will obviously get stood up, but they are more likely to spend money in the establishment since they're already there. Like maybe a drink or 2.

[-] yamanii@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago

Now that's evil.

[-] BugleFingers@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago

As someone who has been stood up consecutively 16 times. What a monsterous way to acquire business

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