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this post was submitted on 15 Sep 2024
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Sorry to hear about the speech problem; and I can relate to the hostility problem (It's why I try to understand others rather than freak-out and get nasty, although I'm not perfect at it).
Unironically, the reason I don't curse is because it helps me speak better and focus on the emotions (that I've) that aren't so clear to me. Cursing - from my point of view - can get in the way of understanding and engagment of speech & emotions.
As for picking one or the other, let me try to put the shower thought in one sentence, since I seem to have lost the original point, somewhere in having these coversations:
Cursing is uncreative & tends to be use as filler words.
Maybe it's too obvious to people that they assumed more than needed (the - "there's always something better to say," probably didn't help, I'll admit that.)
I genuinely thought it was intersting idea, since I've used them as filler words & I heard others do it too.
I noticing trends with the post, and - while responding - starting to see the can of worms I've opened up; I really thought this post would get something around 3 votes and 1 comment.
I understand and relate to most of speech ( and in art in general ) can boil down to personal preferences.
Speech to me can be a little bit more than that, but I'll rest my case here.