you're straight up doing pseudo psychology based on what i assume is experience with ML orgs that just live near you, a single person in a country of millions

He does start out with qualifying he is speaking from his own personal experience. On top of that the bulletpoint is not discussing communication, but a tendency wherein projects that were succesful outside of an org are moved within and subsumed by the org, which tends to have a negative affect.
I agree with most of your response talking about DMs and bureaucracy, but I think you are assuming the worst possible interpretation for a lot of what is being said. One could interpret @Owl@hexbear.net comments to just be descriptive of the tendencies we do see in many leftist orgs to create endless commitees and formalia for meetings. Those tendencies come as a result of feds infiltrating orgs and being wreckers. It's literally part of the wrecker playbook.
From 'Simple sabotage Field Manual' (highlighting done by some dorks on another website)

edit: wrong bird