Then you need to adjust your perspective.

No, I don't actually need to do anything. I'm stating my opinion, like everybody else is. I just think that you are wrong. And I think that that perspective will lead this space nurturing the sort of tribalistic blame-game that has been seen in previous overtly misogynistic MensRights spaces.

Feminism is an ideology that has from the start been steeped in misandry. That is what we oppose. Sure, there are individual feminists who may promote actual equality. But show us the actual feminist thought leaders, academics, lobbyists and politicians who do. The majority in practice support sexist ideas and policies.

This is an over-generalisation of feminism.

Like, radical feminists often outright loathe liberal feminists. Intersectional feminists have long been critical of the strands of feminism focused on traditional, white, femininity. Queer feminists tear apart TERFs (although while TERFs claim the label of feminist, they tend to enforce rigid gender distinctions so many people, including myself, don't think they are feminists at all). The label "feminism" refers to a massive, multifaceted, many-decades-long field of study and discourse, full of differing perspectives and internal disagreements and discussions.

It's like what the right-wing does with terms like "woke" or "cancel culture". It lumps together a diverse set of beliefs, which are often in opposition to one another, under a single label and talks about them as if they're one single unified ideology or movement. It then picks the worst examples from that set of beliefs and uses it to tar everything under the label. Any counter examples can be dismissed as "individuals" who are not representative of the set as a whole.

Because unfortunately, in practice feminism too often is not egalitarian, but paints men collectively as oppressors. We oppose that unhealthy, sexist view of men.

Feminists regularly state that men as individuals are not well served by a patriarchal system.

Heck that's a big part of what feminist conversation around "toxic masculinity" is about: how a patriarchal system hurts everybody, including the individual men within it.

A lot of this is just the misunderstanding of "men" as a social group, and "men" as individuals. Critique of the social systems affecting a group cannot be simply applied to every individual within that group. That's not how critique of social systems is intended.

We are pro women's advocacy. We simply oppose misandry as well as misogyny.

In the welcome thread you favourited comments that consider feminism to have a "focus on female supremacy" and to be "genocidal". That same comment thread deliberately misinterprets feminist distinction between "group" and "individual" and considers that some sort of malicious deception.

To be very frank, you are not pro women's advocacy if that is the sort of generalisation that you encourage.

And just practically speaking, meaningful men's advocacy is only going to gain actual traction by working with feminists towards egalitarianism. So long as there is a focus on tearing down this falsely constructed boogeyman of "feminism", this will be little more than finger-pointing.