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[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 4 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Let me flip that around.

Why do men (and let's be honest here, almost always specifically white men) simply have to comment where:

  1. They have no meaningful lived experience outside of "I think i saw a woman in porn once".
  2. The people who are talking don't want to be constantly correcting and educating the ignorant.
  3. The group in question is a single fucking group out of literally THOUSANDS OF GROUPS where they are unwelcome?

Doesn't that just make you cringe a little, being so fucking whiny and so fucking self-centred that you can't stand a single fucking space that doesn't want you?

Note: these questions are for you to ponder, not reply, because:

  1. Answering it is against the rules. Don't be the kind of whiny shit that breaks the rules because your ego got bruised.
  2. I won't see the answer because nothing is more of a turn-off for conversational purposes than a whiny manosphere twit. You're getting blocked the moment I hit "Reply".
[–] Photonic@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

Let me rephrase that:

Note: I simply replaced your misandrist remarks with racist remarks, these are not my opinion.

Why do blacks (and let's be honest here, almost always specifically blacks) simply have to comment where:

  1. They have no meaningful lived experience outside of "I think i saw a white person in porn once".
  2. The people who are talking don't want to be constantly correcting and educating the ignorant black people.
  3. The group in question is a single fucking group out of literally THOUSANDS OF GROUPS where they are unwelcome?

Doesn't that just make you cringe a little, being so fucking whiny and so fucking self-centred that you can't stand a single fucking space that doesn't want you because you are a black person?

Note: these questions are for you to ponder, not reply, because:

  1. Answering it is against the rules. Don't be the kind of whiny black shit that breaks the rules because your ego got bruised.
  2. I won't see the answer because nothing is more of a turn-off for conversational purposes than a whiny black twit. You're getting blocked the moment I hit "Reply".

Why would you treat one group of humans differently than others? Why would you be racist, or misogynist or misandrist? Absolutely appalling behaviour.

Even now your comment is absolutely filled with derogatory remarks towards me and other men. I don’t think this is the case you want to be making if you’re trying to convince me this is not all just misandry.

And don’t flatter yourself. I have no interest in a conversation with a racist, misandrist or any other kind of -ist. I’m simply posting this to show others how horrible you treat other human beings.