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[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Are you suggesting men can’t control themselves?

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Going off how the man you originally replied to has not had a back and forth with your antics it's more of an implication, really.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You’ve already been told you’re not welcome here.

Thanks for proving you can’t help but force yourself onto women.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Rules…

  1. Don't be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice.
  1. Don't hate on groups, hatefilled talk about groups is not allowed. Ever.

Time to rewrite the rules based on what @velma@sh.itjust.works thinks, eh?

Aggressive much? Hateful much? For being so much better that him, you're quite a dick.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Cry more. Your tears are delicious.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Next time a woman tells her she doesn’t want you around, listen.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Aren't you supposed to be getting well? Or do you just have to get the last word in so you follow me everywhere?

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 2 points 16 hours ago

Right back at ya

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Come on now, this guy has broken the rules multiple times.

I just accurately clocked that he is forcing himself into spaces where he’s not welcome.

There’s a reason he only pulled rules 2 and 3 while ignoring the rule 1.

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

yall just made me feel like the little kid hiding in the corner while mommy and daddy fight. lol

absolutely vicious and Im throwing shit at my bedroom door so you stop.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I really haven’t been a dick to him regardless of his hurt feelings.

He’s welcome to follow the rules and not participate in this community at any point. He’s refusing. That’s on him.

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 14 hours ago
[–] Wren@lemmy.today 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Less of an implication, more like evidence in your case.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 day ago (2 children)

So the lack of participation of the self proclaimed man further back in the conversation is evidence in my case of...?

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Being less likeable than a bear.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Apparently getting under your skin.

Is it the questioning, or the final say that bothers you? Is Wren an alt account? You seem equally perturbed...

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 16 hours ago

You really enjoy pushing women’s boundaries, don’t you?

You like to see women squirm and get uncomfortable when you force yourself on them despite their protests?

You enjoy hearing a woman say no and ignoring it?