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[–] Aerosolcb@lemmy.world 18 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (2 children)

Im a blue collar dude. Have been most of my life. The amount of nude photos of wives and girlfriends I've seen is astounding. Dudes will just pull out their phones and show everyone. Especially during lunch. I never understood that. Breaking the trust of someone who shared stuff like that is scumbag shit.

Edit: Im really new to Lemmy and just realized that this is a woman only space. Sorry about that. I just browse All Active.

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 18 points 17 hours ago

Yes it's fine Aero it's a genuine error. I won't delete your comments as they're supportive abd thanks for understanding 😊

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 16 points 20 hours ago

Thanks for reading the rules and clarifying you didn’t mean to break them :) I do appreciate the sentiment.

[–] Event_Horizon@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago

This suggests bears share intimate videos maliciously 😱

[–] 10thGlyphix@lemmy.zip 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Rozauhtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Eat honey, maul your enemies, and sleep all winter.

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 31 points 1 day ago

I've encountered strange bears in the woods and strange men in the woods. The bears didn't make weirdly suggestive comments about being alone in the woods.

[–] hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 1 day ago

A town I sometimes visit has a bear research centre, and I like to go there to see the bears.

I have never wanted to visit a man research station to see men.

The bears keep winning.

[–] HarneyToker@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago (6 children)

As a man, I have never once done that or been in a group chat for that.

[–] Rozauhtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 23 hours ago

Good. You managed to clear a very, very low bar.

[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 8 points 21 hours ago

If you do see it, call the guy out

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 24 points 1 day ago

Oh well I guess it doesn't happen. Our mistake, ladies and folks, this guy says he's not a terrible person, despite missing the entire fucking point of the meme and this community.

[–] Leg@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm also a man, barging in. My ex best friend did it multiple times, showcasing multiple women. Also showed my girlfriend, unprompted. My experience cancels yours out.

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This is a community for women only, while your support is great it's against the community rules for you to post.

[–] Leg@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 17 hours ago

Np mate thanks for understanding ❤️

[–] velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Rules…

Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women's community is a good fit for them.

Thank you oh so much for invalidating our experiences with your manly knowledge. Surely since YOU don't share intimate videos, that means NO MAN EVER has shared intimate videos. Wow, I'm so grateful to be bestowed this knowledge from a man such as you.

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 10 points 17 hours ago

Velma behave yourself!! Men are speaking. Pipe down and know your place.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

He did no such thing. He simply provided a data point. 1 down, ~170mil to go

[–] velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

This is a women's only community.

You can take your "not all men" statements literally anywhere else on Lemmy and be more welcome than here.

Do y'all enjoy forcing yourselves into spaces where you're not welcome?

Edit: Well.....you are men. Definitely still choosing the fucking bear.

[–] ThirdConsul@lemmy.zip 13 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Is it weird that when a shitpost that is supposed to polarize people reaches main page, people get triggered?

Because honestly this is baiting.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 11 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

Are you suggesting men can’t control themselves?

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 8 points 17 hours ago (1 children)
[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 3 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Going off how the man you originally replied to has not had a back and forth with your antics it's more of an implication, really.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 10 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

You’ve already been told you’re not welcome here.

Thanks for proving you can’t help but force yourself onto women.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Rules…

  1. Don't be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice.
  1. Don't hate on groups, hatefilled talk about groups is not allowed. Ever.

Time to rewrite the rules based on what @velma@sh.itjust.works thinks, eh?

Aggressive much? Hateful much? For being so much better that him, you're quite a dick.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 5 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Cry more. Your tears are delicious.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 6 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Next time a woman tells her she doesn’t want you around, listen.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 4 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Aren't you supposed to be getting well? Or do you just have to get the last word in so you follow me everywhere?

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago

Right back at ya

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 6 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Come on now, this guy has broken the rules multiple times.

I just accurately clocked that he is forcing himself into spaces where he’s not welcome.

There’s a reason he only pulled rules 2 and 3 while ignoring the rule 1.

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 7 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Less of an implication, more like evidence in your case.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 1 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

So the lack of participation of the self proclaimed man further back in the conversation is evidence in my case of...?

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 4 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Being less likeable than a bear.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 4 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Apparently getting under your skin.

Is it the questioning, or the final say that bothers you? Is Wren an alt account? You seem equally perturbed...

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago

You really enjoy pushing women’s boundaries, don’t you?

You like to see women squirm and get uncomfortable when you force yourself on them despite their protests?

You enjoy hearing a woman say no and ignoring it?

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 9 points 1 day ago

If this triggers you it says more about you than the meme.

[–] sachamato@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Women don't share men's intimate videos in chat groups for fun.

[–] velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I'm sure some women have. That's not the discussion we're having here.

I have a sneaking suspicion you have also ignored the rules for this community.

Edit:: "My wife asked for this. Lol" on a post about holding someone's penis while they pee.

Get the fuck out of here.

[–] sachamato@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

They really don't

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 11 points 1 day ago

This one is fucking fascinating to me. They tried using the genderswap gotcha but since the original text was about bears (of which the manbabies have no equivalent) they just look like they're unrealistically praising women

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 15 points 1 day ago

Congratulations for meeting th bare fucking minimum requirement of human decency.

It doesn't erase those that have shared videos

[–] ceenote@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago

Bears stay winning