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[–] velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Rules…

Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women's community is a good fit for them.

Thank you oh so much for invalidating our experiences with your manly knowledge. Surely since YOU don't share intimate videos, that means NO MAN EVER has shared intimate videos. Wow, I'm so grateful to be bestowed this knowledge from a man such as you.

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 10 points 20 hours ago

Velma behave yourself!! Men are speaking. Pipe down and know your place.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

He did no such thing. He simply provided a data point. 1 down, ~170mil to go

[–] velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

This is a women's only community.

You can take your "not all men" statements literally anywhere else on Lemmy and be more welcome than here.

Do y'all enjoy forcing yourselves into spaces where you're not welcome?

Edit: Well.....you are men. Definitely still choosing the fucking bear.

[–] ThirdConsul@lemmy.zip 13 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Is it weird that when a shitpost that is supposed to polarize people reaches main page, people get triggered?

Because honestly this is baiting.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Are you suggesting men can’t control themselves?

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Going off how the man you originally replied to has not had a back and forth with your antics it's more of an implication, really.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You’ve already been told you’re not welcome here.

Thanks for proving you can’t help but force yourself onto women.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 4 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Rules…

  1. Don't be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice.
  1. Don't hate on groups, hatefilled talk about groups is not allowed. Ever.

Time to rewrite the rules based on what @velma@sh.itjust.works thinks, eh?

Aggressive much? Hateful much? For being so much better that him, you're quite a dick.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 5 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Cry more. Your tears are delicious.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 6 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Next time a woman tells her she doesn’t want you around, listen.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Aren't you supposed to be getting well? Or do you just have to get the last word in so you follow me everywhere?

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 hours ago

Right back at ya

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 6 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

Come on now, this guy has broken the rules multiple times.

I just accurately clocked that he is forcing himself into spaces where he’s not welcome.

There’s a reason he only pulled rules 2 and 3 while ignoring the rule 1.

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

yall just made me feel like the little kid hiding in the corner while mommy and daddy fight. lol

absolutely vicious and Im throwing shit at my bedroom door so you stop.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I really haven’t been a dick to him regardless of his hurt feelings.

He’s welcome to follow the rules and not participate in this community at any point. He’s refusing. That’s on him.

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 hour ago
[–] Wren@lemmy.today 7 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Less of an implication, more like evidence in your case.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 1 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

So the lack of participation of the self proclaimed man further back in the conversation is evidence in my case of...?

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Being less likeable than a bear.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 4 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 2 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Apparently getting under your skin.

Is it the questioning, or the final say that bothers you? Is Wren an alt account? You seem equally perturbed...

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 hours ago

You really enjoy pushing women’s boundaries, don’t you?

You like to see women squirm and get uncomfortable when you force yourself on them despite their protests?

You enjoy hearing a woman say no and ignoring it?

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 9 points 1 day ago

If this triggers you it says more about you than the meme.

[–] sachamato@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Women don't share men's intimate videos in chat groups for fun.

[–] velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I'm sure some women have. That's not the discussion we're having here.

I have a sneaking suspicion you have also ignored the rules for this community.

Edit:: "My wife asked for this. Lol" on a post about holding someone's penis while they pee.

Get the fuck out of here.

[–] sachamato@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago

They really don't

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 11 points 1 day ago

This one is fucking fascinating to me. They tried using the genderswap gotcha but since the original text was about bears (of which the manbabies have no equivalent) they just look like they're unrealistically praising women