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[–] HarneyToker@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago (7 children)

As a man, I have never once done that or been in a group chat for that.

[–] hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 14 hours ago

Having been a man at one point, I never once did it, nor been in a group chat where guys did it, but I've interacted with plenty of other men who have offered or done so.

It's good that you're not associating with shitty people, but just because you've never personally experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

[–] Rozauhtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 day ago

Good. You managed to clear a very, very low bar.

[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 9 points 1 day ago

If you do see it, call the guy out

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 24 points 2 days ago

Oh well I guess it doesn't happen. Our mistake, ladies and folks, this guy says he's not a terrible person, despite missing the entire fucking point of the meme and this community.

[–] velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Rules…

Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women's community is a good fit for them.

Thank you oh so much for invalidating our experiences with your manly knowledge. Surely since YOU don't share intimate videos, that means NO MAN EVER has shared intimate videos. Wow, I'm so grateful to be bestowed this knowledge from a man such as you.

Velma behave yourself!! Men are speaking. Pipe down and know your place.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

He did no such thing. He simply provided a data point. 1 down, ~170mil to go

[–] velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

This is a women's only community.

You can take your "not all men" statements literally anywhere else on Lemmy and be more welcome than here.

Do y'all enjoy forcing yourselves into spaces where you're not welcome?

Edit: Well.....you are men. Definitely still choosing the fucking bear.

[–] ThirdConsul@lemmy.zip 13 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Is it weird that when a shitpost that is supposed to polarize people reaches main page, people get triggered?

Because honestly this is baiting.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Are you suggesting men can’t control themselves?

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Going off how the man you originally replied to has not had a back and forth with your antics it's more of an implication, really.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You’ve already been told you’re not welcome here.

Thanks for proving you can’t help but force yourself onto women.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Rules…

  1. Don't be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice.
  1. Don't hate on groups, hatefilled talk about groups is not allowed. Ever.

Time to rewrite the rules based on what @velma@sh.itjust.works thinks, eh?

Aggressive much? Hateful much? For being so much better that him, you're quite a dick.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Cry more. Your tears are delicious.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Next time a woman tells her she doesn’t want you around, listen.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Aren't you supposed to be getting well? Or do you just have to get the last word in so you follow me everywhere?

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 2 points 16 hours ago

Right back at ya

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Come on now, this guy has broken the rules multiple times.

I just accurately clocked that he is forcing himself into spaces where he’s not welcome.

There’s a reason he only pulled rules 2 and 3 while ignoring the rule 1.

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

yall just made me feel like the little kid hiding in the corner while mommy and daddy fight. lol

absolutely vicious and Im throwing shit at my bedroom door so you stop.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I really haven’t been a dick to him regardless of his hurt feelings.

He’s welcome to follow the rules and not participate in this community at any point. He’s refusing. That’s on him.

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 14 hours ago
[–] Wren@lemmy.today 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Less of an implication, more like evidence in your case.

[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 day ago (2 children)

So the lack of participation of the self proclaimed man further back in the conversation is evidence in my case of...?

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Being less likeable than a bear.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Apparently getting under your skin.

Is it the questioning, or the final say that bothers you? Is Wren an alt account? You seem equally perturbed...

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 16 hours ago

You really enjoy pushing women’s boundaries, don’t you?

You like to see women squirm and get uncomfortable when you force yourself on them despite their protests?

You enjoy hearing a woman say no and ignoring it?

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 9 points 1 day ago

If this triggers you it says more about you than the meme.

[–] sachamato@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Women don't share men's intimate videos in chat groups for fun.

[–] velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I'm sure some women have. That's not the discussion we're having here.

I have a sneaking suspicion you have also ignored the rules for this community.

Edit:: "My wife asked for this. Lol" on a post about holding someone's penis while they pee.

Get the fuck out of here.

[–] sachamato@lemmy.world 2 points 23 hours ago

They really don't

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 11 points 2 days ago

This one is fucking fascinating to me. They tried using the genderswap gotcha but since the original text was about bears (of which the manbabies have no equivalent) they just look like they're unrealistically praising women

[–] Leg@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm also a man, barging in. My ex best friend did it multiple times, showcasing multiple women. Also showed my girlfriend, unprompted. My experience cancels yours out.

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This is a community for women only, while your support is great it's against the community rules for you to post.

[–] Leg@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Np mate thanks for understanding ❤️

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 15 points 2 days ago

Congratulations for meeting th bare fucking minimum requirement of human decency.

It doesn't erase those that have shared videos