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I won't claim this is nearly the same magnitude of issue but this comment reads like a "what was she wearing" type of comment. You're presuming a particular perpetrator and victim and immediately doubting a portrayal and envisioning your own because they don't agree.
I'll just say that, many of the times I have opened up to some people, I have come to regret doing so. And no, the stress was not "I said something racist and everyone hates me now". I won't detail beyond that for obvious reasons, but I know where the sentiment comes from.
You already know you shouldn't be making that comparison. How awful.
Nope, as a woman I can confidently say that your comment is doing the exact same thing. Dismissing an entire topic because you have already formed an opinion about it, and that opinion is "they deserved it."
Yeah ok lol
Why would you presume what triggers another person or not? You are virtue-signaling. We get it, you are a new age feminist. Old school feminists realized that they need equality. New age want men to suffer. Don’t worry, we suffer. In quiet. And your questions “feel” exactly like asking “what was she wearing”.
lol
Bullshit