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[โ€“] Aarrodri@lemmy.world 27 points 3 days ago (1 children)

My distant aunt and uncle got murdered in a horrible robbery. They had a daughter..my cousin. We hanged out as kids but lost touch until this event. A couple of weeks after the funeral I decided to call her to see how she was holding up. We chatted for a long time and she thanked me for checking on her. Months later she told me she was a few seconds away from suicide when I called called her that time... And our random conversation changed her approach to life.

Oof... That's horrible, but also good on you for calling her. I can imagine that's a whole bunch feelings with that memory.