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It just seems incredibly odd for there to be so many lines in a book about gender insisting that there is no way to refer to someone (in the English language, at least) without implying gender. She even mentions the possibility of using „it“ at one point!

I’m liking the book otherwise, but every time the narrators ponder about pronouns without even considering „they“ I have to ask myself if there is any point in ignoring it or if she genuinely just forgot. I don’t think it’s possible for her to have not known about it considering how well-read she was and how long it’s been in use.

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[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I’m all for neopronouns, and we do have them, but that would be even harder to teach people than the plural they. (Not to mention, it would face a lot more backlash.)

[–] Peppycito@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago

My perfect word would be something in between he/she so you could switch to it halfway through when you misspeak. I'm not trying to be ignorant but grammatical conventions are quite ingrained.