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What sucks is that it ruins relationships for those of us who know the person has it but they don't think they do or use the Internet to do a "lol I have ADHD, what's your super power?". I have a ton of sympathy for you all who know you have it and want help but have docs who think you're just fine, because everyone these days runs around saying they have it.
If you can't tell I'm dealing with this situation, and they are basically pushing me away because they think they're just fine, and I'm the issue. Yet all their relationships always end in the other person being the issue, and everyone being against them. ADHD sucks and it's so shit how social media has turned it into just some joke. Like it's a "hah" disorder and not a life altering disorder that needs serious help.
Someday the person may have the ‘aha… fuck’ moment and think back to you. I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with it. I’m ADHD only diagnosed about 5 years ago but my work’s CEO is basically 15 years older, SUPER undiagnosed, and has money/power/sycophants so he will never truly ‘deal’ with any of it, even as he may be actively ruining his company and his behavior is causing the best people to quit. The defense mechanisms go deep. We can’t force introspection unfortunately…