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[–] Bruhh@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I just like keeping it real. I genuinely don't care about your day and I won't pretend like I do in order to fill the "awkward" silence. If I'm interested enough to talk to you, then it isn't small talk

[–] rethnor@lemmy.zip 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If you care about someone, then you care what happened to them.

[–] Bruhh@lemmy.world 3 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Then it isn't small talk if I care about someone

[–] rethnor@lemmy.zip 3 points 21 hours ago

So asking how some ones day went isn't small talk then?

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 4 points 1 day ago

I think your definition of small talk doesn't line up with how people use it.