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[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Any guy who feels the need to proclaim himself a Nice Guy probably isn't one.

[–] P00ptart@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Same goes with "tough" guys.

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 4 points 21 hours ago

Alpha males

[–] WolfmanEightySix@piefed.social 5 points 1 day ago

And those that brag about how hard they work.

[–] ironycanal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 20 hours ago

Nice guy is an identity group, not like an actual personality trait a guy has.

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

How much of that is a self-fulfilling stereotype though? Aren't most people aware of the meme that "nice guys" are actually douchebags? So if someone is self identifying like that, it probably also means they are severely out of the loop, which could correlate with other unlikable traits.

[–] ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca 2 points 17 hours ago

Or likeable traits like going outside instead of being terminally online.