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Wait... That's not like, actually rare or anything, is it?
Its not, it's the most dominant form of attraction.
Your just in Lemmy where like 70% of the user base is lgbtq, furry or a shut in that has little to no real world experience outside of their bubble or the queer community.
Its wild how frequently I see people claim to be amazed at what is frequently the most common cold ass takes on topics.
The younger generation of the queer community has an almost overwhelming fixation with sexuality and gender identity well beyond what is normal.
Its actually a fun case if you ever have a chance to talk to a few different elders in the community who grew up though the 60s-80s.
Its not a new topic in the community by any means but it has caused a wild echo chamber effect over the last 15 years thanks to social media, a larger community connection, and increased representation and freedom.
To be attracted to someone just based on hidden sexual characteristics? I'm not knocking it, but I won't pretend I understand it either
Eh. It's less that's the only factor, and more that the range from girly to butch has little impact on if someone is attractive. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
But if they have a hidden dick they somehow know? I stand by it's weird.
I could show them many girls that are gorgeous but they're ladyboys. Based on their logic they would be attracted and the penis shouldn't matter but then they say sex matters so how do they know that person has a hidden dick?
I mean, if someone is attractive, then they are attractive? I don't just want to bang every attractive girl out there!
Maybe it's different for people who go for flings, but I like to be friends with someone before anything goes to the bedroom - specifically friends enough that bedroom chat and what we're both looking for isn't an awkward topic.
If it turns out they have a dick, then I've still got a good friend? IDK.
To get to the bedroom means sexual attraction though? Does anyone get to the bedroom without the intention to fuck?
And if they have a fully fem voice, and it's a hidden aspect that you won't find out until you TALK ABOUT IT then... I don't get your point.
Just because you find out someone has a cock and balls doesn't mean you still need to bend them over, lmao. On top of that, do you think getting to that point and stopping somehow gives you "the gay?"
Read the original post we are both replying to. Person was saying they're only attracted to women. I think we are both arguing the same thing it's fucking weird. Many "women" are actually men. The point is the person isnt going to know. They're saying it doesn't matter and yet the mythical idea of a vagina is what they look for. What if they look like John Cena but they have a vagina? Would they be attracted to them because they have the lady parts? It's weird they are forcing an absolutism on that.
I mean... There's a difference between man, male, woman, and female.
John Cena with a vagina would clearly look like a man, that they wouldn't be attracted to, because that's a man. Maybe a female man, but a man.
Just note that they never said male or female, and they mentioned attractiveness, not desire to fuck.
Just my last nitpick because I don't want an infinite back and forth they mentioned attractiveness in women but did specify what I would assume is traditional images of women hence my point you can have full on men as beautiful as women except they're hiding a dick. By their logic they are not attracted to those people because they somehow know they are not women? That is what I found weird.