WomensStuff

yeah i used to be much more up in arms against misandry for the same reasons. it was really hard trying to be a man when i was really a woman inside, so i thought thats what it was like for all men. i also really hated having stereotypes that were basically the exact opposite of me applied to me just because i was perceived as a man. that shit really hurt. like yes im horny a lot but im not a heartless sex fiend or a rapist. i like kids but that doesnt mean im a pedo. i felt like i had to do so much hedging against male stereotypes because it felt like people were so ready to apply them to me even though i didnt fit them at all.

since transitioning i get it a lot more. i really didnt realize how differently men treat women in general, in a bad way. even men who dont know im a woman treat me differently since i started estrogen, like theyre subconsciously picking up on the vibe. the worst though is when men know im a trans woman. ive finally been cat called and it made me feel so uncomfortable. ive been asked how big my dick is more times than i care to count, though that is mostly just dating apps and chatting with randos online. i could list more of my experiences but i know ive barely scratched the surface compared to what cis women have gone through. i keep expecting these to be isolated incidents, to find most men are chill, but i keep being disappointed. so i get misandry much more now. its built brick by brick by horrible men treating women badly, until the inescapable conclusion is fuck men.