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You don't question my professional decision-making unless you bring receipts to the table. If you're going to try to vibe-argue me in my area of expertise I will fucking dismantle you publicly. Bring receipts and I will listen.
Damnit I wish you were just a little bit gay ... because that's one of the hottest things I've ever read.
I'm ... ah ... in old-timey terms Kinsey 2. I think the kiddies would call me "pan".
So ... that's a maybe?
Well, SO and I have very strict rules about bringing new people into the relationship.
Do you play tabletop games? RPGs, board games, card games?
I play a lot of Fluxx, and I love Tue gentler end of TTRPGs like Last Night on Earth. I do silly voices for it.
I have a dream for GMIng the casual TTRPGs that are collaborative storytelling over maths. I'm not competitive.
Thay being said, I'm usually in Europe most of the time :-/
Fluxx is loads of fun! And if you mean "story games" I've got FATE, Spark (and its descendants) and StoryEngine on my shelf (some of the very few games that I have physical copies of).
Fate was what I was thinking of using to GM with! Reading about Spark, that sounds like it would work too ... does it have a different emphasis?
After September I've made it a mission to go to some of the language exchange social groups near where I live, and if I can find some like-minded people at one of them I was thinking of starting that sort if game to help people with B1 or higher English level improve their language while playing :-)
I don't have any formal qualifications, but my mother was always very strict with elocution and correct English*, so I can help with pronounciation and grammar.
Last time I tried going to an RPG group I did one evening of Pathfinder, and that really wasn't my thing - hence the emphasis on storytelling
Spark is like collaborative story-telling where the dice come out when people disagree on what happens. It focuses on characters having their beliefs challenged and either confirmed or altered. It's one of my absolute favourite games. It's currently available for free (Genesis of Legend puts their games into the public domain after a decade).
Oh wow, that sounds perfect!
What are your favourite games?
I'm split down the middle between fairly crunchy trad games and games that are effectively improv with dice (or in their solo incarnations, writing with dice).
For the first variety, the golden king of all my games remains Chivalry & Sorcery (currently in its fifth edition; I primarily played second). I was also a big fan of a game called Rolemaster, though a later spin-off of it called HARP was more my speed later on (and, in fact, is one of the few games that I brought with me when moving to China).
For the second variety, I love Spark and its offshoots, especially Sig: Manual of the Primes. And I adore FATE, but specifically the Accelerated Edition.
I guess that finding people to play either sort of game with is tricky in China, with the rules all being in English? Do you play any of them online?
I can't say I'd know what a crunchy trade game is like ... I only ever did the one session of Pathfinder, and watched Stranger Things, lol
I love the idea of doing improv-style games, and I want to use them to try and make new friends. It seems like a repeating pattern that every time I make a friend they have to move away for some external reason, and we drift apart :-/
"Crunchy" just means "lots of rules" and Pathfinder is pretty much a crunchy trad game. Crunchy games can be insanely complex (like Powers & Perils) by having completely different systems for each and every thing (old school AD&D was this way too, as was Chivalry & Sorcery in its first and second editions) or they can have unified game systems where one or two simple core mechanisms are used in different ways for the rules (C&S from the third edition onward qualifies, as does D&D form the third edition onward, and its offshoots like Pathfinder).
I do occasionally find people to play with (including SO, obviously) but yes, my RPG playing is at an all-time low since I first encountered them in '78. I don't play online because I despise computers enough that I really don't want them in my hobbies.
You can get the rules to Spark and FATE (in several editions: Core, Accelerated Edition, and Condensed) for free if you want to see what the flavours are like.
Ah ok ... yeah, playing Pathfinder was, to me, like having homework, lol. My brain just doesn't work in the right way for it. It didn't help that the group was all guys, and while they were friendly enough I wasn't completely at ease.
I'm sorry that you're stuck without an outlet for something you obviously love :-( I can sympathise, with one of my core hobbies ... which I don't really want to talk about in public, for fear of doxxing myself.
Are there any annual English-language RPG events / festivals near where you live? (Sorry, I don't really know about this stuff!)
Nothing local, no. Just a few people I can get together with sporadically.
Like RPG methodone?
I love this. I'm the same being in regulatory services. I get talked down to a lot by different sexes and cultures because I'm POC and female. They can try to take me down, but I dish it out just as hard if not harder, and with a smile.
A good sweet smile while you rip out their guts and hang them as garlands around their neck (metaphorically speaking … mostly) is really good for generating fear.
Especially when they tell me to smile... I wrap them around my own neck. 😘☠️