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[–] Monument@piefed.world 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Perfect username for this comment.

But also, it just depends. Sometimes it’s about the party, place, and people.

I don’t talk about it much in normal spaces, but a subset of my friends group is fairly routinely naked or (with consent) randomly and casually sexually interacting with others.

At the most recent party with this group, they had to explicitly say the party was kid-friendly until a certain point, to avoid pink bits and inappropriate demonstrations from happening while children were there. (And also to ensure parents knew to get their kids out of there.)

Examples of things that routinely occur -Some of the women wear dog toy squeakers in their bra to encourage interaction with their boobs.
People just compare undergarments and anatomy. Folks just get partially/fully naked and hang out.
People get tied up on the suspension point in the living room.
The same mount point can also mount to a pole, and the pole can be swapped in if someone is feeling acrobatic.
Sex sometimes randomly happens. I’ve been involved in an impromptu threesome. (A twosome spun up and we had a guest appearance.) People leave doors open.
There’s a hot tub. People use it. (The rule is no bodily fluids in the hot tub.) I mean, it’s kinky people at a party. Not a kink party. But just people at a party that negotiate consent and things happen.

Different rules for different groups, though. The point isn’t to make people uncomfortable or to play power games (doing that probably would lead to a conversation at minimum and possibly a loss of invitation to future parties), it’s to revel in the physical pleasure of interacting with others and to have fun with folks who like to express their exhbitionist tendencies. While also bitching about work and life and all the other things people do at parties.

[–] vantablack@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Some of the women wear dog toy squeakers in their bra to encourage interaction with their boobs.

stealing this idea tysm

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 1 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

It sounds quite unpleasant, but maybe im thinking of different kinds of dog toys?

[–] vantablack@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

they sell the squeakers on their own separately so you can make your own, i have a big bag of them

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Ahhh that makes more sense than jammer a literal rubber chicken down my bra

[–] Monument@piefed.world 1 points 5 hours ago

Hahaha!

My friend that does this bought a pack of 100 of just the squeakers and she always carries spares to share.

Although… the rubber chicken, which requires a lot less force to honk, might be a good option for the gents. But then they’d honk every time they sat down. Hm… ideas are brewing.