I would probably just look. If there is no attempt at hiding anything then why should I attempt hiding looking?
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I actually find this gross, I'm assuming the roommate consented or else your are no better than the guys who flash people naked under a trench coat. But if he did, and he's obviously so visibly uncomfortable, I can't imagine as an empathetic person continuing to make them uncomfortable.
Even if them being uncomfortable was because they were trying not to make me feel uncomfortable. I can't imagine the meme switched genders people would be so cool about it. I guess i could say if a pig has wings it would be a bird, but this is gross. Sorry.
It's funny cause I just got mad at someone for saying something fucked up to a shitpost, but this doesn't feel right at all.
"Damn bro what happened to that chick you had over the other day? She was way prettier than this one"
Okay... that's actually totally fair. If I was in a dunk tank, I would be in the water.
I sort of had this situation in a house I lived at in college. It only got weird some of the time.
There's definitely a wide range of, uh, dignity in someone's nudity.
I'd be worried looking might be interpreted as leering or being otherwise disrespectful.
Yes but, if you have someone in the house god damn put on some clothes. This is like one of those "don't force me into your kink" things.
Yeah I mean I don't know the rest of the story I guess. Like, maybe there's a perfectly good reason that they're doing what they're doing 🤷
Plus like, i might not mind 👀
Ah violet08 reincarnated again I see.
If your hanging about with you junk out I'm looking. If you don't want me to look put your pants back on.
Used to have "Naked Tuesdays" with another couple we were friends with years ago. Just the four of us hanging out naked watching TV, maybe some other things happening. If you weren't looking at anyone else, why even bother?
Something similar happened to me while playing catan at a friends place and it was pretty weird. One of the sublets we didn't know very well had a new lady friend over ever month. The lady of the month walked into the kitchen in just panties and asked what we were playing. She obviously didn't get the response she was hoping for and left with a disapointed look on her face. We all wondered if she was hoping to fluster a bunch of "virgin nerds" like some corney early 2000s movie in order to stroke her ego.
feeling sorry for lots of the people in this thread and their prudish mindsets
i'm queer and in seattle so casual nudity is pretty normal here, we even have a whole beach for it! i go tits out at bridge raves and pride and other stuff all the time and nobody cares. and half the time i'm wearing see-through tops with no bra! like... sometimes you'll be hanging out and some people will just be naked and it's fine. most of my friends have seen my nudes i post on mastodon! it's good and fine and okay. it's only weird if you make it weird
oh, i’ve always found it kind of funny, actually.
the fediverse/lemmy have a very progressive demographic, but they can also be surprisingly prudish when it comes to anything sex-related, especially when it’s coming from a female perspective.
after being on here for months, i’ve somehow been branded as “the horny poster,” even though most of my posts aren’t explicitly horny or freaky. they’re more observational, almost diaristic, in the way they approach these kinds of topics. for example, i don’t find this post horny or freaky at all.
I've never seen you post something that is not related to sex in some way, so yeah you are definetly a horny poster for me.
I don't mind though.
and don’t even get me started on the “mark this as NSFW, please” police patrolling around here, lmao. (the tamest post you can imagine.)
Ehhhh, I can understand people might hold a pretty large safety margin for "will my boss be OK with this".
Edit: did some profile stalking. None of that is remotely nsfw, screw those people.
I'm not comfortable with people hanging out naked around me and no amount of your "feeling sorry" is going to change that
Especially since I'd wager most of it IS sexual and their fantasy. No one just casually decides it doesn't bother them and then actively goes out of social norms unless they really want to prove a point or it's their kink... ergo, they very much do care.
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No, its kinda weird to casually hang out naked, like what's the motivation behind it?
When you're all comfortable being naked together, and pan/poly while being open with sharing partners... Why casually hang out with clothes on when everyone would rather be naked? Like, what's the motivation behind it?
That's not what this post is about, this is obviously about doing it in front of someone who hasn't been consulted about it and is visibly uncomfortable.
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I have never encountered this situation. I literally am not even sure what situation it's describing
Oh… there are some clothing optional situations in life and for the most part nudity gets very normal very fast but there can be moments when an attractive woman is conspicuously putting her attractive self on parade and just daring you to notice. It’s like a clip from some mating dance on the nature channel somehow pasted onto humans.
A horny wet dream fantasy.
A "violet dream" if you will
At that point just say "Nice tits" and get the awkwardness out of the way. I ain't playing your little power game as one of those friends.
If you don't play their power game then they wind up with a recording of you saying that which they'll save indefinitely in case you ever run for political office.
Also so they can assassinate your character if you ever mildly inconvenience them.
bruh, ain't no body in the political class here and this kompromat gathering is useless against a bunch of suburbanites that are vicariously living through their friend with the younger partner.
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But ...what if the tits aren't nice?
Then you say "nice tits" and don't look at em anymore.
Then you say it sarcasticly. Or just flail your arms and say "Quaid, start the reactor"
Never go full Kuato! Seriously though, that's hilarious.
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Mean titties ya got there
Let me tell you about the worst pair of titties I ever saw; they were awesome
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"Will you please roll those up and put them away? I'm afraid I am going to trip"
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"why is she being weird, this is uncomfortable"
I once knew someone fairly exhibitionist. I consider myself relatively immune to bullshit and once spoke to her about it and how it was a bit rude to make other people uncomfortable for your own gratification, but she didn't change what she was doing.
(She never hung out naked, it was just stuff she said or how far she and her bf would go when out with all our friends.)
yeah this kind of stuff needs consent from everyone or you're just making people uncomfortable and that's not fun or very nice
I think there's a real selfish mindset to it: people who do this like using their sexuality to get a reaction, even if others don't enjoy it. They like "making a man hot under the collar" or watching someone try to decide whether to say something, or then feeling superior because they didn't name the violation of social norms.
I kinda get the other side: if we were more open about sex and nudity it'd save a lot of grief. But I think you can tell when someone wants to do that versus when they get a power trip from sitting around with their tits out, because it's done in smaller ways.
~~even~~ especially if others don’t enjoy it
Seems like the fundamental premise of the joke/meme? It sounds weirdly like getting off on violating others' boundaries.
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