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Abortion is fine no matter what, but in particular for this case yes; Down's syndrome isn't the almond eyed happy somewhat simple child that Facebook memes make it out to be. They can have awful congenital heart disease, they have a much larger chance of getting leukemia, and they age seemingly twice as fast, a Down's syndrome person in their forties is incredibly frail. They're happy enough people and can often enjoy a good quality of life, there's a guy who is a bartender in Buffalo at a Mexican restaurant who makes amazing drinks, for one, and there's nothing wrong with having a child with Down's if you want, but if you find out you are pregnant with a baby with Down's you really should see medical genetics and have a fetal echo and maternal fetal medicine and ensure you make a decision that works for you. There are Down's syndrome babies who never leave the hospital because of the comorbidities.