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I'm not a fan, my country is basically christian, even tho we are technically a secular state (I hope this is the correct term, the term in portuguese is estado laico). There's a pretty big evangelical/protestant lobby in the government and a bunch of billionaire pastors.
We even have a very widespread coloquial term for evangelicals/protestants, the word crente (something like believer in a very quick translation). Part of my family is catholic, part is evangelical (I'm pretty sure I'm the only atheist), but even tho the crentes are known for being annoying about their religion, my relatives are very chill and don't really bring it up unsolicited (at least I don't remember it happening), so I can't say I have had a bad interaction with crentes outside the internet, where they are very annoying, specially because a lot of them tend to just go to comment sections to preach and spread hate towards lgbt people out of nowhere.
There's also the very big problem of pedophile pastors here in Brasil.
CW: Pedophilia
Just recently I listened to an audio of a pastor talking to a child, I don't remember if her age comes up in the conversation, but I'm pretty sure she was very young, where the pastor is asking her to come to his house to abuse her, even saying that she should lie to her grandma about it saying that she is just going to the house of a friend from the church.This shit made my stomach turn upside down the moment I started listening to the audio.
I don't have much experience with people from other religions, mostly I know a couple of muslims, but I'm not against religion in the sense that it should be prohibited, because I think everyone should be free to have and exercise their own beliefs. I'm against it in the sense that it is used as a tool to control people, and I think it will mostly wither away when people's needs are met since religion serves as a way to socialize and feel part of a community for a lot of people. But I could be wrong on this, since socialist states like Cuba have a very big christian population.
I think the way China deals with religion is probably the way. You allow people to exercise their beliefs, to carry their religious texts and symbols, to have their temples and churches and religious places, but you don't allow for public preaching and the state has the last say in it, maintaining it under constant supervision.
Just a side note about abusers: they will position themselves anywhere that gives some sense of authority over vulnerable populations, religious orgs, boys/girls clubs, police, government, nursing homes, politics, charities; and while some is intentional, some do it on some base, low-level, unconscious instinct, that is there is no prefrontal executive function going on there, rather just some amygdala level stuff. And the animal instinct people may be easier to rehab, in a better world.