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I'm new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don't know anything about lemmy etiquette and don't want to do anything bad

thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D

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[โ€“] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 20 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

My best advice is that if it seems inactive, that means you should subscribe to a bunch of stuff and switch to hot, top 6 hour and scaled. Active is the default and seems the least active.

The comments in this thread will give you a great idea on how most people act around here. Hate the idea and not the user and you should be fine.

Your "also plz be kind :D" comment tells me that you're going to go through a bit of withdrawal on the hate and drama. It's great here even even though we have a few trolls and bots.

[โ€“] Camille_Jamal@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

withdrawal on the hate and drama

I'm confused, what? (like that I'm just so used to mean big internet????? or something else?)

thanks! have a great day!

[โ€“] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 weeks ago

Iโ€™m confused, what? (like that Iโ€™m just so used to mean big internet??? or something else?)

Reddit keeps everyone engaged with hate and drama. They have bots that go after people to troll. Of course, there are the real trolls as well. So far, we're a little lighter than that.

How are you liking it here?