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[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

One person asking if my wife's hair is real. (It is.)

Oh, I so badly want to know why they asked.

I'm 50/50 on afro, or blue. EDIT: probably not the former since its your wife's famile...

[–] MystValkyrie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Just straight, brown hair, oddly enough. I think some people don't really know the difference between drag queens and trans women, and then assume that all trans women wear wigs because drag queens tend to.

[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

that all trans women wear wigs because drag queens tend to.

??? That- just doesn't make any sense. Yeah yeah bigotry is always irrational yadda yadda but why the hell would anyone think that? Like, with drag it makes sense, because they need to be able to "turn it off", but a woman who dresses and presents herself as a woman 24/7?

[–] Triasha@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

A lot of ignorant bigots think that trans women are "advanced gay"

They can't be asked to tell the difference.

[–] Valorie12@lemmy.world 1 points 8 hours ago

If being a lesbian trans women means being advanced gay, then I mean that kinda checks out.