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So... How is everyone's christmas eve going? (lemmygrad.ml)

submitted 3 days ago by Lenom@lemmygrad.ml to c/comradeship@lemmygrad.ml

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It's practically 80⁰F/26⁰C where I'm at, and I'm sleep deprived :^L

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[–] CurseAvoider@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Thank you for your kind words 🙌 I'll try to take it easy until then but it's not easy with a family that doesn't really seem to remember that I'm disabled and has never once asked me about what my triggers are or how I manage with them. People incl family just assume what you can and can't do and what you need or don't need for you when they could just ask "Do you know your triggers, and how do you usually deal with them?"

The day I dread most is the 26th but it's at my grandma's house so I still want to go lol.

[–] Maeve1@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 3 days ago

People incl family just assume what you can and can’t do and what you need or don’t need for you when they could just ask

Oh believe me, I am well aware

“Do you know your triggers, and how do you usually deal with them?

Yeah, that's not a question I will answer from my family, because then they will be the stage upon which tap dancing in stilletto heels commences. Tomorrow I am giving myself the gift of peace by not going home; and my personality disordered parent the gift of a different target.